Episodios

  • Creating Connection in a Digital World: Shan Boodram on Friendship, Modern Love and Algorithmic Attachment
    Oct 7 2025
    #313: If you’ve ever felt like you’re not measuring up to where you “should” be—whether that’s finding partnership by a certain age, building lasting friendships as an adult, or navigating the expectations society throws at you—this episode is for you.Today, I’m sitting down with the always insightful Shan Boodram to talk about the real journey of connecting—from romance, to friendship and everywhere in between. Shan doesn’t shy away from the messy, inconvenient parts of connection—whether it’s dating in a world that prizes efficiency, how algorithms influence our decisions and attachment styles, or the challenges of learning how to nurture deep friendships later in life.We dive into why your age or relationship timeline doesn’t define your worth, how to find and nurture love that truly sees you, and why inconvenience might be the secret ingredient to building bonds that last. Shan shares her wisdom on how to show up authentically in both romantic and platonic relationships, break away from rigid dating rules, and live a big, joy-filled life at any stage.If you’ve ever questioned whether it’s too late for new love or genuine friendships—or if you’re simply craving more meaningful connection—hit play on this episode.We talk about:How online algorithms are impacting our attachment styles and preferencesNavigating dating and romance without falling into the efficiency trapThe truth about cultivating friendships as an adultThe power of showing up, even when it’s inconvenientLetting go of dating rules and loving by your own standardsLinks & Resources:Watch Lovers by ShanJoin the Lovers by Shan communityFollow Shan on Instagram @shanboodramGet your She’s So Lucky MerchSponsors:LMNT: LMNT is a zero sugar electrolyte drink mix with a research-backed ratio of electrolytes. To try it out go to drinkLMNT.com/balancedles to receive a free LMNT sample pack with any purchase.Vionic Shoes: Use code LUCKY at checkout for 15% off your entire order at vionicshoes.com.Bumble: Start your love story on BumbleGrüns: Grüns are comprehensive nutrition packed into a snack pack a day. Visit gruns.co and use the code LUCKY for 52% off your first order.Vimergy: Vimergy: Vimergy makes liquid vitamins that are clean, potent, and actually easy for your body to absorb. Visit vimergy.com and use code LUCKY for 20% off your first order.Stay in TouchFollow on IG: @shessoluckypod @lesalfredFollow on TikTok @shessoluckypod @balancedlesSubscribe to the She’s So Lucky Newsletter: https://shessolucky.kit.com/bestcaseVisit our website at shessoluckypodcast.comPlease note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services referred to in this episode.Produced by Dear Media.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
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  • It’s not Hysteria! with Dr. Karen Tang and The Second Opinion
    Oct 6 2025

    Sharing a special episode this week, from Dr. Sharon Malone. On Dr. Sharon’s new podcast, The Second Opinion, women take back the conversation on health with straight talk, real experience, and the care we all deserve. You’ll hear prominent female advocates, experts and patients just like you sharing how they confronted gaps in our healthcare system and got second opinions that saved their lives. Alongside each guest, Dr. Sharon tackles the questions and topics we’ve been conditioned to ignore — the ones we search for at 3 a.m. but never bring up at the doctor’s office. From dismissed symptoms to systemic failures, she pulls back the curtain on what’s really going on in women’s health and gives women the tools to advocate for themselves and each other. In this episode, Dr. Sharon talks to Board Certified Ob/GYN and Minimally Invasive Gynecologic Surgeon, Dr. Karen Tang. The two unpack the evolution of Obstetrics Gynecology, the different OB-GYN subspecialties, and surgical options for reproductive health. Plus, Dr. Tang shares experiences patients may have on the surgical table and why you may want to choose a minimally invasive surgery for gynecologic conditions.


    Find more episodes of The Second Opinion with Dr. Sharon Malone at https://link.mgln.ai/shessolucky

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  • How to Know When It’s Time to Leave—Your Job, Your Partner, or Your Old Self with Nicole Walters
    Sep 30 2025

    #312: If you’ve ever felt like you’re too loud, too soft, too opinionated, too emotional, too ambitious—or just too much—this episode is for you.

    Nicole Walters is back on the podcast, and in true Nicole fashion, she’s not holding anything back. After walking away from a 12-year marriage, becoming a mom again at 40, writing a bestselling memoir, and rebranding her platform, she’s learned exactly what it costs to become your truest self. And why it’s always worth it.

    We talk about what happens when you stop downplaying yourself to stay likable, why clarity often comes after loss, and how to stop shrinking yourself just because it makes other people more comfortable.

    If you’ve been tiptoeing around your own evolution—afraid of how it might look, or who it might upset—you need to press play on this episode.

    We talk about:

    • The cost of shrinking to be palatable
    • Using your platform when your values are louder than your fear
    • The difference between responding and reacting
    • Her postpartum experience and why having a baby at 40 changed everything
    • Being misunderstood and doing it anyway
    • How to know when it’s time to leave—your job, your relationship, your old self


    Links & Resources:

    • Listen to Nicole’s podcast, Tell Me More
    • Check out Nicole’s book Nothing is Missing: How to Live Boldly and Step Into Your Purpose
    • Follow Nicole on Instagram @nicolewalters
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    Produced by Dear Media.

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  • What Would Beyoncé Do?
    Sep 23 2025

    #311: Have you ever hit a wall—mentally, creatively, emotionally—and wondered how you were going to get through it? I have, many times.


    When I’m low on motivation or facing something that feels bigger than me, I’ve started asking myself a simple question: What would Beyoncé do? Not in a “she’s perfect” kind of way, but because she embodies discipline, reinvention, and showing up even when it’s hard.

    In this solo episode, I’m sharing why Beyoncé is one of my go-to sources of inspo when I need to recalibrate, plus a few lessons I’ve pulled from her rehearsals, performances, and fearless approach to business. Whether it’s a new creative project, a tough decision, or just getting through a blah week—channeling a little Bey energy can go a long way.

    If you’ve been needing a mindset reset or a reminder that you’ve got this (even when it feels like you don’t) this episode is for you.


    Links:

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    • Follow on TikTok @shessoluckypod @lesalfred


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    Please note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services referred to in this episode.


    Produced by Dear Media.


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  • How to Be the Love of Your Own Life with Simi Muhumuza
    Sep 16 2025

    #310: Self-love is a popular topic, but what does it actually mean in practice?

    In this episode I’m joined by content creator and creative powerhouse Simi Muhumuza for a conversation that’s honest, affirming, and full of softness. We talk about what it means to return to yourself, especially after a year that asked you to slow down and start over.

    Simi shares why 2024 and 2025 have been life-changing years, chronicling her journey of releasing fear, surrendering to joy, and trusting her body again. We also talk about her breast reduction experience, the emotional healing that came with it, and what it means to feel at home in your body after a big shift.

    If you’re in a season of resetting, reclaiming, or just figuring out what your version of growth looks like, this episode is for you.

    Resources:

    • Follow Simi on Instagram @simimoonlight
    • Follow Simi on TikTok @simimoonlight
    • Subscribe to Simi’s YouTube Channel
    • Subscribe to Simi’s Substack
    • Subscribe to the She’s So Lucky Newsletter and get our Best Case Scenario Journal Template


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    Please note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services referred to in this episode.


    Produced by Dear Media.

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  • The Truth About Being Authentic Online with Jaz Smith
    Sep 9 2025

    #309: Is it possible to maintain visibility and authenticity at the same time?

    In this episode I’m joined by content creator and entrepreneur Jaz Smith to talk about what it actually looks like to build a brand around your real life.

    We get into her evolution from working in real estate to becoming a full-time creator, what shifted when she started treating social media like a business, and how she balances visibility with authenticity in a world that often demands both.

    Jazmyn shares the behind-the-scenes of growing her platform with intention, the pressure of always being “on,” and why some of the most powerful career moves don’t look like work at all.

    This conversation is such a refreshing reminder that growth can be strategic and human.

    We Talk About…

    • Her pivot from real estate to full-time content
    • The exact moment she started treating TikTok like a job
    • How she planned her dream wedding on her own terms
    • The parts of her life she doesn’t post
    • Navigating friendship changes in your 20s and 30s


    Resources:

    • Follow Jaz on Instagram @justjazzzyidk
    • Follow Jaz on TikTok @justjazzzyidk
    • Listen to Jaz’s podcast Delusional Diaries
    • Download my free Best Case Scenario Journal Template


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    Keep in touch:

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    Produced by Dear Media.


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  • Fashion Is More Than Clothes–It’s Culture with Sandrine Charles
    Sep 2 2025

    #308: Is working in fashion as glamorous as it seems?

    This week, I’m joined by fashion consultant and PR powerhouse Sandrine Charles for a conversation that I know is going to stick with you. From working her way up in the fashion industry to starting her own agency and co-founding the Black in Fashion Council, Sandrine has built a career rooted in intention, integrity, and impact.

    We talk about what it actually takes to grow a career in fashion PR, how she knew it was time to branch out on her own, and why representation in fashion goes way beyond who’s walking the runway.

    Whether you’re in a creative industry, figuring out your next career move, or just trying to build something that feels more aligned—you’ll get so much out of this conversation. This episode is for anyone who's craving a more values-aligned path—and wants the inspiration to go after it.


    We also talk about:

    • How Sandrine broke into the fashion industry
    • The not-so-glamorous truth about PR
    • Why she started her own agency (and how she knew she was ready)
    • How the Black in Fashion Council came to be
    • Why fashion is about so much more than just clothes


    Resources:

    • Follow Sandrine on Instagram @sandrinecharles
    • Learn more about Sandrine’s agency https://www.sandrinecharles.com/
    • Follow the Black in Fashion Council on Instagram @blackinfashioncouncil
    • Download my free Best Case Scenario Journal Template


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    • Quince: Elevate your fall wardrobe essentials with Quince. Go to quince.com/balancedles for free shipping on. your order and 365-day returns.
    • Nutrafol: Get stronger, healthier hair with Nutrafol. For a limited time, Nutrafol is offering $10 OFF your first month’s subscription and free shipping when you go to nutrafol.com and enter promo code BALANCEDLES.
    • Opill: Opill is birth control in your control, and you can use code BALANCEDLES for 25% off your first month at www.opill.com.


    Keep in touch:

    • Follow on IG: @shessoluckypod @lesalfred
    • Follow on TikTok @shessoluckypod @lesalfred
    • Visit our website at balancedblackgirl.com


    Please note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services referred to in this episode.


    Produced by Dear Media.

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  • Are You Being Your Own Biggest Hater? Let’s Talk About It [Bonus]
    Aug 29 2025

    #307: This week, I’m diving into something that’s been coming up a lot in my own life and in so many conversations with friends, too: the subtle (and not-so-subtle) ways we sabotage ourselves.

    In this solo episode, I’m unpacking why other people don’t actually have the power to block what’s meant for us—but we do. Whether it’s through self-doubt, procrastination, perfectionism, or just plain fear, we can end up being our own biggest haters.

    I’m also sharing some mindset shifts and honest reflections that have helped me recognize when I’m getting in my own way and how I try to move through it with a little more self-compassion and a lot more clarity.

    If you’ve ever had that gut feeling that you might be the one holding yourself back… this one’s for you.

    Resources:

    • Follow me on IG @lesalfred
    • Follow She’s So Lucky on IG @shessoluckypod
    • Follow me on TikTok @balancedles
    • Follow She’s So Lucky on TikTok @shessoluckypod
    • Download my free Best Case Scenario Journal Template


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    Keep in touch:

    • Follow on IG: @shessoluckypod @lesalfred
    • Follow on TikTok @shessoluckypod @lesalfred
    • Visit our website at balancedblackgirl.com


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    Produced by Dear Media.


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