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Stop Hating and Start Building Yourself

Why do you use your energy to hate when you could use it positively?

In this episode, we talk about hate and how you can transform that hating energy into something positive for yourself. 

Many times, we don’t realize that we’re projecting ourselves on others, especially when we’re hating them. Did you know that you’re killing your own yourself when you’re hating? Stop making enemies out of potential alliances, take that hate, and turn it into something positive.

We often hate people who are displaying something we desire but don’t have, and instead of taking it as a learning experience, we take the opportunity to hate. When hating, you’re unconsciously hoping that something bad happens to the object of your hate, which is not right. 

Take the opportunity to build yourself when you see something you desire instead of hating. Do not let your own self-judgment be more than your self-improvement. 

Step away from the mirror so you can come back to it looking different. Find what works for you, instead of wasting your time critiquing yourself. 

Turn your hate into a resource! Go ask them what makes their story so you can also build yours.