Is men’s self-care weak, or is it essential to attracting women? In this episode of Sharing My Truth, Mel and Suzie break down how grooming, mental health, fitness, and confidence play into dating success. Is skipping self-care actually keeping you single? In this episode of Sharing My Truth, Mel and Suzie get into the debate, does looking after yourself make you more attractive, or do men risk being seen as “not masculine” for doing it?

From grooming and mental health to sleep, skin care, we explore whether self-care is a weakness or the ultimate secret weapon for finding a woman who actually wants to stick around. Get ready for laughs, some hard truths, and maybe even permission to book that massage without guilt.

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A young man, a married woman in her 50s, and a suburban street where temptation lived just over the fence. In this episode, we unpack the jaw-dropping story of a young guy who finds himself in a steamy affair with his brother’s hot, married neighbour. It’s got all the ingredients of a guilty pleasure drama—age gaps, family betrayal, and the kind of secret rendezvous that can only end in chaos.

Mel and Suzie break down what really drives affairs like this. Is it the thrill of danger? The allure of experience? Or just two people escaping their reality in the worst possible way? We’re talking sex, secrecy, and the messy fallout of chasing desire where you absolutely shouldn’t. Buckle up—this one is raw, funny, and way too relatable.

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Is dating secretly a competition? In this episode of Sharing My Truth, Mel and Suzie ask if men actually date better when there’s rivalry in the mix. Do guys bring more effort when they know other men are in the picture—or is it just toxic game-playing disguised as romance? We dig into psychology, ego, attraction, and whether competition makes men step up… or just act out.

If you’ve ever wondered why men suddenly plan dates, dress sharper, or turn on the charm only when there’s “another guy,” this one’s for you.

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