In this episode of Sexy Marriage Radio, Pam and I answer an email from a listener about how she can seek her own pleasure after orgasm troubles have appeared. The wife shares that she has been diagnosed with lichen planus, which has impacted her ability to orgasm during intercourse. Despite this, she can still achieve orgasm through masturbation and is contemplating whether it is selfish to ask her husband to allow her to masturbate alongside him after they have sex.

Our conversation explores into the complexities of sexual intimacy, particularly how changes in the body and sexual function can affect relationships. We want to encourage listeners to consider the importance of collaboration in sexual experiences, suggesting that masturbation can be a shared activity rather than a solitary one.

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We explore the guilt and shame often associated with masturbation, particularly in the context of religious backgrounds, and advocate for a more open and accepting approach to discussing sexual health and pleasure within marriage.

We give you some questions to ask yourself regarding your beliefs and possible scripts surrounding your sex life.

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In this episode of Sexy Marriage Radio, Pam and I discuss how vacations can serve as a vital reset for relationships, allowing couples to reconnect and rejuvenate their bond.

We explore the dynamics of vacationing, the importance of creating bandwidth for each other, and how to implement the relaxed mindset of vacations into everyday life. This is more about the need for intentionality in maintaining connection and intimacy beyond the vacation setting.

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There are several different kinds of vacations - we discuss some of them.

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In this episode of Sexy Marriage Radio, Pam and I discuss the complexities of how our fantasy life, desires and sexual practices are not just ours. We emphasize the importance of owning one's desires while recognizing the impact those desires have on spouses.

Our conversation explores themes of gridlock in relationships, the pursuit of 'enough' in intimacy, and the necessity of self-development and integrity within the context of marriage. Listeners are encouraged to confront their own roles in relationship dynamics and to communicate effectively with their partners to foster growth and understanding.

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We talk through our 3 words for 2026. Words that will help shape our year. What are yours?

Listen to find out.

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