Welcome to Episode 458 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I’m excited to be joined by Sarah Intelligator, a divorce attorney and author who brings such a fascinating perspective on dating, relationships, and why so many marriages end the way they do.

Sarah shares how two decades in family law, and her own journey through divorce and remarriage, have shaped her perspective on why relationships break down. She has seen the same patterns repeat themselves in countless cases, and she is passionate about helping people understand those pitfalls before it’s too late.

Sarah Intelligator is a divorce attorney in Los Angeles, California. She earned a Juris Doctorate from Southwestern Law School. She graduated from UCLA, cum laude, with a Bachelor of Arts in English. Practicing Family Law since 2008, Sarah has also been a yoga instructor since 2000. She organically bridged her two worlds, coining the term: “Holistic Divorce and Family Law.” In helping others through their divorces, Sarah realised that she could help them avoid divorce altogether.

In this episode, you will hear:

· Common Patterns Behind Divorce

· The Importance Of Sexual Compatibility

· Resentment As A Hidden Relationship Killer

· How Children Shift Intimacy In Marriage

· Emotional Needs And The Roots Of Affairs

· Changing Old Dating Patterns

· Core Values Versus Shifting Needs

· The Trap Of Fairy Tale Expectations

· How Communication Protects Connection

· Choosing Partners From A Place Of Worth

Thank you to our sponsor WIFEY, the premiere adult entertainment platform that breaks down stigmas around modern relationships, and fosters an open, shame-free space to talk about love, trust, and sex.

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Welcome to Episode 457 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I'm excited to be joined by Kevin Patterson who speaks to me about polyamory, representation, and emotional literacy.

In this conversation, Kevin shares his journey into consensual non-monogamy and the inspiration behind Poly Role Models, a project designed to broaden representation of polyamory beyond narrow stereotypes.

Kevin Patterson is an active member of the Philadelphia polyamory community. He's been practicing ethical nonmonogamy since August of 2002 after opening up a relationship that eventually became his marriage. In April of 2015, Kevin was inspired to start Poly Role Models, an interview series for people describing their experiences with polyamory. Poly Role Models was part of a drive and a desire to change the way our lives and communities are viewed. To continue that discussion of polyamorous representation, Kevin has extended the blog's work into the writing of the book, Love's Not Color Blind: Race and Representation in Polyamorous and Other Alternative Communities.

In this episode, you will hear:

· Origins Of Poly Role Models

· Breaking Stereotypes In Polyamory

· Representation Beyond White Narratives

· Cheating Versus Consensual Non-Monogamy

· The Pitfalls Of Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell

· Race And Identity In Non-Monogamy

· Navigating Jealousy With Emotional Literacy

· Building Healthier Conversations In Relationships

· Creating Safer And More Inclusive Spaces

· Kevin’s Work In Fiction And Superhero Storytelling

Thank you to our sponsor WIFEY, the premiere adult entertainment platform that breaks down stigmas around modern relationships, and fosters an open, shame-free space to talk about love, trust, and sex.

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Welcome to Episode 456 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I’m excited to be joined by Allana Pratt, Annette Benedetti, Caitlin V, Dr. Margaret Cochran, Rob Kancler, Susan Bratton, and Sylvia Solit who help me answer one powerful question: What’s one thing women wish men knew about sex, but almost never say out loud?

Across this conversation, our guests share profound insights into how women truly experience desire and intimacy. You’ll hear why slowing down, building safety, and creating emotional connection are essential foundations for passion.

We discuss the hidden fantasies and longings that many women never voice, the importance of curiosity and play, and how sex is far more than just physical technique, it’s a whole-body, mind, and spirit experience. Our guests also emphasize how communication itself can be deeply erotic, and that balancing sensitivity with power opens the door to deeper intimacy.

In this episode, you will hear:

· Allana Pratt On Safety And Slow Build-Up

· Annette Benedetti On Hidden Desires

· Caitlin V On Whole-Body Sex

· Dr. Margaret Cochran On Why Talk Is Sexy

· Rob Kancler On Sensitivity And Power

· Susan Bratton On Seduction And Play

· Sylvia Solit On Sex As A Continuum

· Women’s Bodies And Arousal Timing

· Overcoming Shame And Cultural Scripts

· Integrating Emotional And Spiritual Connection

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Thank you to our sponsor WIFEY, the premiere adult entertainment platform that breaks down stigmas around modern relationships, and fosters an open, shame-free space to talk about love, trust, and sex.

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