Sexless Relationship Therapy Guide: Restoring Intimacy and Connection

Sexless Relationship Therapy Guide: How to Help Couples Restore Intimacy and Sexual Bond

Sexless marriages are far more common than most couples realise, and the impact is deeper than many therapists are trained to address.

In this episode, I break down why sex matters in long-term relationships, what’s driving the sharp rise in sexlessness, and how both therapists and couples can tackle it head-on.

This discussion is grounded in research, clinical experience, and the lived reality of countless couples.

If you’re a therapist, you’ll get a clear framework for addressing sexlessness in the therapy room. If you’re part of a couple, you’ll understand what’s really going on and what you can do to change it.

I’ll cover:

• Why sexlessness is rising so fast, and why that matters

• The emotional, relational, and cultural fallout of avoiding sex

• The narratives fuelling disconnection between men and women

• Common therapeutic blind spots and how to address them

• A practical framework to restore intimacy

• Why sex isn’t “just a bonus”, it’s a core emotional need, like trust or respect

Question for You: Do you think therapists and couples avoid talking honestly about sex? Share your thoughts — I’d love to hear your perspective.

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Chapters: 00:00 Introduction: The Sexless Marriage Crisis 00:41 Cultural Forces Driving Sexual Disconnection 02:03 The Power of Sexual Bonding 02:37 Why Sex Gets Ignored in Therapy 04:17 Statistics on Sexless Marriages 06:51 Trauma, Pain, and Safety Considerations 08:02 Is Sexlessness a Symptom or a Cause? 09:36 Key Questions to Assess the Sexual Dynamic 11:38 Willingness to Engage in Healing 12:41 Cultural Influences on Sex Between Men and Women 15:28 The Emotional Significance of Sex 18:00 Consequences of Sexual Neglect 19:51 Impact of Intimacy on Families and Children 20:53 Intentional Intimacy: Making Space for Connection 24:27 Barriers to Progress 27:45 Practical Strategies for Therapists

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