Sex, Status & Emotional Unavailability: LA where everyone is Hot but Nobody is Healed.

This episode is about why the hottest connections are usually the most broken ones.

In LA, attraction is everywhere—perfect bodies, curated lifestyles, endless options. But underneath the yoga pants, cold plunges, and rooftop cocktails is something way less glamorous: love addiction and unhealed childhood trauma.

In this episode of The Three Mantras Podcast, I break down:
• Why sexual chemistry is often trauma responding to trauma
• How emotionally unavailable people find each other effortlessly
• Why intensity feels like intimacy—but never lasts
• The cycle of attraction, sex, distance, and collapse
• Why LA dating rewards desire, not depth

These relationships look incredible on Instagram.
They feel electric in bed.
And they implode the moment real emotional safety is required.

If you keep attracting unavailable partners…
If passion keeps replacing peace…
If the connection is hot but unstable…

This episode explains why—and how to stop mistaking chaos for love.

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