Seasons

Ecclesiastes 3:1 (NLT) For everything there is a season, a time for every activity under heaven.

There are different seasons in our lives. When I was a young boy, I thought as a young boy. All I could think about was receiving my long list of wants. I believed that all would be right with the world if only I had a certain toy or bike. Birthday and Christmas gifts? Did they make my life more fulfilling? Actually, they only provided a short-lived, very brief, intense excitement. We humans do pray for a lot of things, no matter our age. We may pray for safety, health, love, or even good grades.

My next memorable season was being noticed by girls. I hoped I looked more like a young man, and I just knew getting my driver’s license would be all I needed. Hurry up, turn 16, get my license, and I could already visualize myself cruising around town. However, what I didn’t know was the expectations of this season from my parents. Responsibility was being taught, and paying for my own gas was a reality. Dating was next, a long-awaited season. Asking a girl out was so awkward and made me nauseous. Rejection was on my mind. I prayed to be as cool as a cucumber, but that didn’t always happen. At least, I only had one time where I opened the car door for my date and it sprung back and hit her in the head.

My senior year was a new season. After changing schools, I decided to march in the high school band and began with summer practice. As practice started, I nervously arrived in the band room and was greeted by a beautiful young lady who gave me a comforting “hello” that touched my heart. We talked, and I found the courage to ask her out while nervously praying for a yes.

The good news, my soon-to-be girlfriend said yes. After our first date, I went home, sat on my parents’ bed, and confidently told them I had found the girl I would marry. A new season! Here we are 52 years later with 2 grown children, 5 grandchildren, and 1 great-grandchild. We have been blessed to be happily married. It takes hard work daily and is not always milk and honey. We are a praying family and have found many serious things to pray about over the many seasons of our life together. Our now adult son experienced a life-threatening car accident as a teenager. I found myself praying for his life and the gifts he has to offer to the world. As the seasons have passed, we realize just how blessed we have been to have watched his faith provide a strong Christian impact on his students.

Another season we have lived through is the loss of our parents and then the turning point of becoming empty nesters. Through those years of parenting, we worked diligently with our children to prepare them for life and their own seasons to come. There is a time to prepare them to handle life and then a time to let them go. We have also been blessed to love and care for many pets. Sadly, they have such short lives, and yet they were wonderful examples of faith, loyalty, love, and comfort on days they sensed were hard days for us. Our love for them started the day they joined our family and continued until we gave them the last kiss, pat, and hug as we said goodbye. The end of another beautiful season.

And now, we are in this new season. A season of reflection and examination. Not the last season, but one of appreciating the seasons we have shared. From our childhoods, through our young adult years, middle age years, and now older adult years, we truly know, “for everything there is a season”. We are blessed and look forward to God’s plans for this time.

Please pray with me.

Loving God, you tell us there is a time for every activity under heaven. Let this be our season to love, not hate; show civility, be generous, serve more, complain less, be supportive, spend more time with family, be less self-centered, be better parents and grandparents, be more...