In this Strong Dad's show, Andy Dalton welcomes guest Frank Henegar. Andy and Frank continue Rock Solid Families December theme of "Mission" in a different way. They dive into "Mission Field" and how that relates to God's mission and how our mission ties into that.

Throughout this podcast you will hear about how to discern your mission field, where God is calling you to use the gifts He's given you, and how men can work alongside one another to help encourage others where their mission field is.

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Strong Dads Podcast Episode Summary

In this episode of the Strong Dads Podcast, hosts Merrill Hutchinson and Andy Dalton dive into the significance of having a mission in life, particularly from a man’s perspective. The discussion unfolds in a structured manner, highlighting key themes and insights for fathers and men striving to lead purposeful lives.

The Importance of a Mission

The podcast opens with a brief advertisement for Quality Autoart, emphasizing their multifaceted services for both cars and golf carts, while thanking them for their sponsorship. This sets a community-focused tone for the episode.

Merrill and Andy then introduce the central theme of the month: mission. They discuss how their content will become more theme-based, providing a roadmap for their discussions ahead. Merrill and Andy express a desire to explore the concept of mission from various perspectives, especially what it means for men.

Intentionality in Life

The conversation shifts toward the importance of living intentionally and not drifting through life. They reference Ephesians 2:10, which emphasizes that individuals are created for good works, highlighting the significance of being deliberate in one’s actions and decisions.

Merrill and Andy emphasize that a man’s mission should align with God’s mission. They stress the importance of understanding God’s ways, not just personal ambitions, echoing the idea that serving God ultimately enhances one’s role as a father and husband.

The Role of Christ

Merrill articulates the distinction between God as a general concept and Christ as a defined figure, suggesting that understanding Christ’s example is crucial for men to grasp what it means to be a strong leader in their families. They discuss how Christ came to serve rather than be served, a countercultural idea that men often struggle to embrace.

Practical Application of Mission

Merrill and Andy then provide practical advice on living out one’s mission, focusing on home first. They argue that the family should be the primary mission field, urging fathers to actively lead their children in faith rather than leaving them to choose their paths without guidance.

Merrill and Andy also touch on the idea that mission is not just about the family; it extends into the workplace and community. They encourage listeners to serve with integrity and to view every role, no matter how mundane, as an opportunity to reflect Christ’s love.

Spiritual Warfare and Intentional Living

The discussion deepens into the spiritual dimensions of mission, recognizing that there are forces at play that seek to disrupt families and individuals. They highlight the need for vigilance and intentionality in protecting one’s family from spiritual attacks. Merrill and Andy affirm that complacency is a danger, urging men to actively engage in their mission to counteract such threats.

Conclusion and Call to Action

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Background -
As a Christian father, the answers are deeply rooted in my faith and my commitment to my family.

How Much Time Do You Have Left?
The simple answer is: I don't know, but I know it's a gift.
The Bible teaches us in James 4:14, “Yet you do not know what tomorrow will bring. What is your life? For you are a mist that appears for a little time and then vanishes.”

As a father, I feel the weight of this truth more acutely than ever. My time is not my own; it's a stewardship entrusted to me by God.

• Finite and Fragile: Whether I have 50 years, 5 years, or just the remainder of this day, the clock is ticking on my earthly assignment. My hope is not in the length of my life, but in the promise of eternity with Christ.

• The Focus is Today: I try to live in light of Psalm 90:12, which asks God to “teach us to number our days, that we may get a heart of wisdom.” Numbering them means cherishing this moment—not procrastinating the important things until a promised tomorrow that may never come.

What Are You Doing With It?
I am trying, imperfectly but earnestly, to do three main things with the time I have left: Love, Serve, and Equip.

1. Loving God and My Wife
• My primary call is to love the Lord with all my heart, soul, and mind (Matthew 22:37). This informs everything else.
• I am committed to loving my wife as Christ loved the church (Ephesians 5:25), sacrificially and faithfully. She is my partner in this journey, and a strong, Christ-centered marriage is the foundation of our home.

2. Serving My Family and Community
• Being Present: This is the hardest part. I have not always been good at this.
• Serving Others: My wife and I aim to model selfless service, whether it’s volunteering at our church, helping a neighbor, or supporting missions. I want my children to see that life isn't about accumulating but about contributing.

3. Equipping My Children
• This is the core of my fatherhood. My job isn't just to provide for them physically, but to pass on a durable faith—a faith that can survive college, career pressure, and cultural chaos.
• We regularly pray together, read the Bible, and talk openly about God's role in our daily lives. I am constantly asking myself: If I were gone tomorrow, have I pointed them clearly enough to the Savior?

One Thing You Can Do
If I could only choose one thing to focus my remaining time on, it would be this:


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