S3E7: How Do We Sit at the Table with Our "Perceived" Enemy?

Reconciliation isn’t optional—it’s the heartbeat of the Gospel.

In a world where division feels louder than ever, what does it really mean to sit at the table with those we see as our “enemies”? In this conversation, Erin and Ramonita explore what it looks like to lay down our weapons, approach conflict with humility, and follow Jesus’ example of love and reconciliation.

Together, they unpack the “rules of engagement” for communion—how active listening, curiosity, and confession can disarm even the most difficult conversations. From understanding the roots of offense to practicing benevolent detachment, this episode invites you to lean into the tension, pursue healing, and keep Christ at the center of it all.

You’ll walk away challenged to see reconciliation not as a one-time event, but as a daily rhythm that transforms how we love, forgive, and lead.

Key Takeaways

* Reconciliation requires humility, forgiveness, and a willingness to listen.

* Setting the table for dialogue opens the door to understanding perceived enemies.

* Jesus models the posture of love and surrender that leads to healing.

* Confession, curiosity, and context disarm conflict and build connection.

* Keeping Christ at the center transforms division into deeper unity.

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