S2 EP2: “The Myth of ‘Soulmates’: Why Perfect Love Is a Fairy Tale”

What if the idea of a soulmate is doing more harm than good?

In this episode of Hearts Wine from Hearts Distractions, we uncork one of the most romanticized—and damaging—beliefs in modern relationships: the myth of “the one.” From fairy tales and rom-coms to social media relationship goals, many couples are chasing perfect love… only to feel disappointed, disconnected, or like they chose wrong.

This episode dives deep into why the search for a flawless partner sets couples up for unrealistic expectations, emotional burnout, and silent resentment—and what real love actually looks like when the fantasy fades.

We explore:

• Why believing in soulmates can sabotage healthy relationships.
• How dating culture, marriage myths, and generational patterns fuel perfectionism in love
• The difference between chemistry, compatibility, committment, and choice.
• How couples in long-term relationships and marriages can reconnect without chasing fantasy.
• Why love isn't found - it's build, repaired, chosen, and protected.

This is a real, raw, and sometimes uncomfortable conversation for couples who are dating, engaged, married, LGBTQ+, rebuilding trust, or questioning whether love should feel easier than it does.

If you’ve ever wondered:

• "Did I choose the wrong person?"
• "Why doesn't love feel like it used to?"
• "Is something wrong with us - or with what we were taught about love?"

…this episode is for you.

🍷 Grab a glass, breathe deep, and let’s talk about the love behind the fantasy—where the real work (and real beauty) lives.

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