S1EP15, The Joy Advantage: How Playfulness Creates Better Leaders and Fuller Lives, Andrea Garfield

Episode Overview: In this insightful conversation, host Bill Nowicki welcomes back Andrea Garfield, CEO of the Awesome Institute and executive coach, to discuss how maintaining joy, playfulness, and personal interests makes for better leadership and more fulfilling lives. The discussion explores how many leaders climb the corporate ladder only to find themselves in positions they've always wanted but feeling disconnected from what truly brings them joy. Key Points Discussed: The Hobby-to-Career Dilemma (01:58)

• Bill shares his concern about turning podcasting from a hobby into a career and potentially losing the joy
• Andrea acknowledges many executives reach their goals but realize they've been building a life they thought they "should have" rather than what brings fulfillment

Rediscovering Playfulness (02:55)

• Many successful leaders have forgotten how to play and what brings them joy
• The importance of "retraining" ourselves to have fun again
• Connecting with our childlike wonder and awe of the world
• How children naturally know how to play but adults lose this ability over time

The Impact of Lifelong Criticism (07:00)

• How criticism throughout our lives (education, work reviews) creates an internal critic
• We begin making "safe choices" to avoid the metaphorical "red pen"
• Children perform without self-criticism, while adults constantly judge themselves
• Learning to observe and quiet our inner critic is essential for rediscovering play

Real-World Application (08:40)

• Story of a CEO learning to play with his grandchildren by getting down on the floor
• How playfulness makes leaders more approachable and changes how people experience them
• Finding moments for play doesn't require large amounts of time

Finding Fun in Small Moments (12:00)

• Andrea shares how she creates playful moments with her daughter while caring for foster kittens
• Bill discusses creating "adventures" with his brother in childhood and continuing this practice as an adult
• How small moments of joy and fun can be incorporated into busy schedules

Work-Life Balance for Leaders (16:55)

• Reminder that "work isn't forever" - jobs end, companies change, people retire
• The importance of developing interests beyond work
• Stories of executives approaching retirement with no idea what to do beyond work

The Value of Being a Beginner (18:30)

• Andrea's practice of always doing something she's "really bad at"
• How being a beginner helps leaders empathize with new employees
• Learning to have fun while doing something you're not good at

Conclusion (19:50)

• Bill reflects on Andrea's approach to leadership development
• The importance of taking positions that are right for you rather than just "the next step"
• Encouragement for listeners to seek coaching as they develop in their careers