S1E13: When You’re the Villain: Healing After You’ve Hurt Someone

Episode Title: When You’re the Villain: Healing After You’ve Hurt Someone
Host: Dr. Mi’Kayla Word
Podcast: Kandid Car Konversations
Episode: S1E13

Episode Summary:
We all love healing after we’ve been hurt… but what about when we’re the ones who caused the pain?

In this episode, Dr. Mi’Kayla Word explores a side of wellness we rarely talk about: what to do when you’re the villain in someone else’s story. With honesty, wisdom, and practical tools, she walks us through how to acknowledge our role in someone’s pain, grow from it, and still believe in our worth.

Whether you’ve hurt someone intentionally or just been misunderstood, this episode gives you a roadmap to move forward in grace—without minimizing your actions or losing yourself in shame.

What You’ll Learn:

• How to acknowledge when you’ve become someone’s villain

• The difference between boundaries and avoidance

• How to coexist with someone you’ve hurt

• What to do when there’s no closure

• How to separate your actions from your identity

• Why healed people help heal people

Key Scripture & Themes:

• Matthew 13:24-30 Wheat and Tares — coexistence without chaos

• John 11:35 — emotional honesty

• The danger of apathy and calloused hearts

• Dealing with triggers, trauma, and truth simultaneously

Listen to this episode if:

• You've unintentionally hurt someone and don’t know what to do next

• You’re tired of internalizing guilt and shame

• You want to grow, not just grieve

• You're ready to love better, live fuller, and heal deeper

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