S02E03: How to 'Get good' with women (It's not what you think)

Ari tears down the outdated idea of “getting good” with women through a just and honest path to genuine connection.

This episode is a guide to turning inward, understanding the roots of self-sabotage, and building a relationship life that’s rooted in values, not surface tricks.

Whether you’re frustrated with dating apps, tired of the ghosting and failed relationships, or simply want to stop overthinking about every text you send - this episode gives you the deeper framework to shift from shame and confusion to clarity and confidence.

Topics Discussed:

• Why “getting good with women” is the wrong goal

• What makes some men naturally magnetic (and why it’s not what you think)

• The danger of manosphere content and the "high value man" narrative

• Ari’s early journey in the dating world, the book that started it all and why was it different

• The 3 essential steps to changing your dating life from the inside out:

  1. How to find women who align with your values (and why this matters more than chemistry)

  2. Breaking comfort-seeking dating loops that lead to pain

  3. Healing inner shame and self-judgment so you can show up fully and freely

  
  

  And then some.... for instance:

  
  

• Why cold approaches and dating apps often reinforce your anxiety

• The power of “creating a well” - places and communities where connection is natural

• How to stop being self-conscious by becoming self-aware in a different way

  
  

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