Hello everyone! Welcome to another episode of Rough Edges. In this episode, I sit down with stress-management expert and author Lolita Guarin to explore what it truly means to live a life rooted in peace, presence, and self-alignment.

Lolita shares how traveling across the world shaped her understanding of happiness, and why so many people who “have everything” still feel overwhelmed and unfulfilled. We talk about the emotional and physical impact of long-term stress, the importance of reclaiming rest, and learning to be instead of constantly doing. Lolita also breaks down her C.A.L.M. method, a practical approach to managing stress and creating sustainable well-being in everyday life.

In this episode we talk about:

● Lolita Guarin and her work as a stress management expert and author

● Why people with “everything” can still be stressed and unhappy

● The way constant stress affects health over time

● Tips for managing stress like taking small breaks during the day (Pomodoro-style but flexible)

● Generational conditioning especially for women being taught to constantly give, care, produce, and never rest

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●Learn more about Lolita’s CALM process ⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠!

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Welcome back to part 2 of our episode topic. In this episode I continue my conversation with Jesse Mercury, host of the Major Pain Podcast on chronic illness, mental health, and the stigma surrounding men's emotional expression. Jesse shares his experience navigating an undiagnosed chronic illness throughout his thirties, the emotional and physical challenges that came with it, and the eventual gratitude he developed in learning to manage his condition.

He speaks openly about anger, fear, depression, and the importance of developing coping tools and support systems. The conversation shifts toward men’s mental health and the societal pressure placed on men to remain stoic and suppress emotional needs. Jesse reflects on how harmful messaging including being told to “tough it out” or being dismissed by doctors impacts the journey of seeking help. He emphasizes the importance of therapy, self-advocacy, and redefining strength as vulnerability and honesty.

In this episode we talk about:

● Living with chronic illness: losing years (the “lost 30s”) and learning to play catch-up

● Stigma around men expressing emotions and the damage of “tough it out” messaging

● Importance of therapy (finding a therapist who understands chronic illness; CBT tools)

● Gratitude that emerged from surviving/learning to manage illness

Resources and links mentioned in this episode:

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● Find out more about Jesse’s Creative website ⁠HERE⁠!

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Hi everyone! In this episode of Rough Edges, I sit down with my uncle, Dr. Stephen Fox, to talk about his journey of faith, military service, education, and mental health. Dr. Fox shares how he first came to faith as a child, how his walk with God shifted during his military service, and how prayer and spiritual community kept him grounded over the years. He also opens up about traumatic experiences he encountered during his time in the Army including the aftermath of the 1995 Oklahoma City bombing and surviving a serious car accident that resulted in post-traumatic stress.

Dr. Fox discusses how counseling, grounding strategies, and leaning into his faith helped him process trauma and continue serving others, particularly children, through his work in early childhood education and instructional leadership. This conversation highlights the importance of support systems, faith, mental health resources, and representation in education and sheds light on the often-overlooked emotional realities faced by veterans.

In this episode we talk about:

● Why Dr. Stephen Fox chose to pursue elementary education especially as a male educator

● Understanding the mental health challenges and suicide risks among veterans

● How Dr. Fox approached earning his doctoral degree and contributing to curriculum development

● The importance of faith, therapy, and emotional support in healing

Mental Health Topics Mentioned:

● Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD)

● Trauma processing and triggers

● Veterans’ mental health challenges

● The role of counseling and coping strategies

Resources and links mentioned in this episode:

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