If trying harder actually worked, you wouldn’t still be stuck.

In this episode, we break the lie that porn use is random or just a willpower problem. It’s not. It’s a pattern—and patterns can be learned, interrupted, and changed.

This isn’t about more rules, more shame, or white-knuckling another January. It’s about understanding what’s actually driving your behavior so real recovery can happen.

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Don't waste your relapse...what can you learn from it? In this episode of the Restoration Soul Care Podcast, Michael Kamber and Nick Buda break down why porn use, relapse, and compulsive behaviors keep repeating—and why trying harder rarely works. If you’re stuck in shame, white-knuckling sobriety, or wondering why you keep going back despite your best intentions, this conversation reframes the entire recovery process.

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You don’t lose when you fall.

You lose when you quit.

Keep showing up.

Many men are quickly labeled “sex addicts,” but that label often misses the deeper issue: an intimacy disorder rooted in the need for validation, connection, and belonging.

In this episode we are joined by friend and fellow Recovery Coach Rodney Vaughan for an honest, nuanced conversation about love addiction—and how it differs from (and overlaps with) pornography and sex addiction.

We unpack how love addiction shows up in real life—constant romantic pursuits, exaggerated emotional dependence on women, affairs, flirtation, and an inability to be alone—while avoiding shallow, behavior-only explanations that leave men stuck.

In this episode we cover:

• The difference between porn addiction and love addiction

• How dopamine, fantasy, and validation function differently in each

• Why male loneliness and lack of male affirmation fuel addictive cycles

• The role of recovery groups and deep male friendships in real healing

If you’ve quit porn but still feel restless, emotionally dependent, or constantly chasing connection, this episode will help you understand why—and what actually leads to change.

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