Relationship Reset: Building Trust and Attraction

Episode #1045

You can be the man everyone respects at work and still feel powerless at home. In this episode, Doug and Chris answer real questions from men who feel like they're crushing it in business but falling apart in their marriage. If your wife shoots down your ideas, questions your decisions, or says she's no longer attracted to you, this conversation will hit home.

They break down what’s really going on when your wife is always in her masculine, how to stop reacting when she tests you, and what it actually means to “be the lighthouse” without shutting down or checking out. You’ll also hear how attraction works emotionally for women and what to do if the spark is gone. Spoiler: you have more control over it than you think.

This isn’t about trying harder or being nicer. It’s about showing up with consistency, grounded confidence, and real leadership at home the same way you do at work. And when you do that, everything changes.

The truth is, your wife wants to feel safe with you again—but she won’t say it that way. She wants to feel your presence, your direction, your edge. If you’ve lost that connection, this episode is a reminder that you can get it back, but it starts with how you lead yourself.

If you want a simple roadmap to rebuild trust and attraction without more long talks or therapy, start with the free training at https://fixmarriage.thepowerfulman.com/scales.