As women runners over 40, we often face a wave of confusing (and sometimes extreme) advice about menopause and fitness — especially on social media. In this episode, we cut through the noise and dive into what really matters when it comes to training during perimenopause and beyond.

We break down the most common menopause myths circulating in the running community and explore the physiological shifts happening in midlife. From hormone changes to training adaptations, we highlight what women truly need to feel strong, empowered, and capable — not just now, but for the long run.

In this episode, we cover:

• The problem with social media extremes & one-size-fits-all advice
• Hormonal changes and their real impact on training and recovery
• Why strength training is non-negotiable in midlife
• The truth about weight gain, metabolism, and cortisol
• How to balance intensity, recovery, and mindset for lifelong performance
• The trend of “cycle syncing” vs. what’s actually helpful for aging runners
• Why personalized training matters more now than ever

Whether you're running through hot flashes or just looking to stay consistent through the transitions of midlife, this episode will leave you informed, empowered, and supported.

02:01 Menopause Myths and Social Media

06:23 Understanding Hormonal Changes

08:07 Training Adaptations for Menopausal Women

12:06 Menopause Myths in Training

14:20 Cycle Specific Training

18:31 Progressive Overload and Recovery

22:42 Training Intensity Debate

27:14 Understanding Exercise Intensity for Aging Bodies

27:47 Weight Gain and Menopause: Myths and Realities

29:08 The Role of Cortisol in Weight Management

34:03 Strength Training: Essential for Midlife

35:11 Balancing Strength and Cardio for Runners

41:03 The Importance of Recovery and Nutrition

45:41 Mindset Shifts for Sustainable Health

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In today’s episode, I’m joined by the incredible Holly Bertone — a former FBI Chief of Staff turned certified holistic health coach — who now helps midlife women break free from emotional eating and step into their power.

Holly shares her deeply personal journey, from leading high-stakes intelligence operations to uncovering the root causes of her own struggles with food. With a unique blend of counterintelligence tactics and brain science, she teaches how to identify emotional triggers, interrupt destructive patterns, and rewire your brain for long-term freedom — all without relying on willpower or restrictive diets.

Together, we dive into the lies we’ve been told by the diet industry, why food feels so emotionally loaded (hello, childhood conditioning and clean plate club!), and how to create lasting change through awareness, forgiveness, and self-compassion.

Holly also walks us through her signature 3-step process — See It, Stop It, Shift It — and shares a powerful tool to help you reclaim your relationship with food.

Whether emotional eating has been a quiet companion or a daily struggle, this episode will help you feel seen, understood, and empowered with tools that truly work.

🎁 PLUS: Don’t miss Holly’s free Emotional Eating Tactical Blueprint — available exclusively to our listeners!

00:13 – Meet Holly: From FBI to holistic health coach
02:00 – Her personal journey and struggles with food
12:57 – Exposing the lies of the diet industry
18:48 – Why we turn to food for comfort
23:56 – Food, emotions, and celebrations
26:18 – The Clean Plate Club and early conditioning
27:08 – Holly’s 3-step process: See It, Stop It, Shift It
36:48 – The power of rewriting your food story
42:23 – How to get Holly’s Emotional Eating Blueprint

Ready to feel more in control and at peace with food? Let’s crack the code together.

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Let’s set the record straight: pain and injury are not just things runners have to live with. In this episode of the Real Life Runners podcast, we’re taking on one of the most damaging myths in the running world — the belief that hurting is normal, expected, or even necessary if you want to improve.

Spoiler alert: it’s not.

Yes, injuries are common — but that doesn’t make them inevitable. And accepting them as “part of the process” only keeps runners stuck in a frustrating cycle of pain, inconsistency, and burnout. We’re here to break that cycle.

We’ll share real-life stories from our own journey and from runners we’ve coached — and we’ll unpack some of the most common injury drivers, including muscle imbalances, overtraining, poor recovery habits, underfueling, and chronic stress.

More importantly, we’ll give you practical tools to run strong and stay healthy:
✅ Why strength training is non-negotiable
✅ How to personalize your plan to fit your life and body
✅ What proper recovery really looks like
✅ Why underfueling is sabotaging your progress (and how to fix it)
✅ How to stop outsourcing your intuition to your watch
✅ And the mindset shift that will help you run for the long haul, not just the next race

Running shouldn’t hurt. And it’s time we stop normalizing it. Whether you’re just starting out or you’ve been running for decades, this episode will challenge how you think about pain, progress, and what’s actually possible for you.

00:43 The Trigger: Challenging Common Narratives

02:02 Understanding Pain vs. Discomfort

04:31 The Harmful Impact of Some Medical Advice

05:32 Rant: Misguided Medical Opinions

08:56 Reframing Pain and Injury in Running

10:38 The Elite Athlete Dilemma

19:22 Consistency Over Intensity

22:45 5 Common Causes of Running Injuries

39:41 5 Ways To Avoid Injuries

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