Purpose Before Love: Integrity, Healing, and Choosing the Right Man

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In this powerful guest episode, Tisia sits down with Nate Cottman for an honest, grounded conversation about love, purpose, healing, and what actually matters when choosing a partner.
Nate brings a refreshing perspective on masculinity, integrity, and emotional depth, reminding us that a man’s purpose should come before partnership. Drawing from spirituality and the biblical story of Adam being given purpose before Eve, Nate explains why diligence, alignment, and character matter more than charm or chemistry.
Together, Tisia and Nate explore:

• What women should truly look for in a man beyond attraction
• Why integrity and purpose are non-negotiables
• Emotional transparency and being known for your heart
• How family dynamics and father wounds shape how we love
• The role of faith and staying aligned with God
• Emotional regulation vs shrinking yourself in relationships
• When effort is reciprocal… and when it’s not
• Therapy, healing, and timing in relationships

💌 Dear Tisia Voicemail SegmentThey also unpack a listener voicemail from a woman who feels like she’s losing herself trying to stay chosen in her relationship. The discussion breaks down:

• Emotional regulation without silencing your needs
• Whether effort after conflict is growth or a red flag
• How to tell if a relationship needs boundaries — or an ending

This episode is for anyone navigating love while trying to stay whole, aligned, and emotionally honest — without over-investing in relationships that cost you yourself.
🎁 The episode closes with a heartfelt moment of appreciation and a surprise gift for Nate, celebrating friendship, empathy, and seeing the value in one another.
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