Puberty Talk for Non-Binary Kids (Without the Gendered Scripts)

Most puberty advice is written for “boys” or “girls” - but what if your child doesn’t fit neatly into either? This episode walks you through how to talk about puberty in a gender-neutral way - so your child feels safe, supported, and seen.

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✅ In this episode:

• Why most puberty books and lessons leave gender-diverse kids out - and how to fill the gap
• What to say when puberty changes don’t match how your child sees themselves
• How to explain things like discharge, erections, periods, or voice changes without gendered language
• Ways to support your child’s comfort - like clothing choices, binding, or puberty blockers
• How to talk early, check for understanding, and gently support kids showing signs of dysphoria

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🦄 About Cath Hakanson

If you want to teach your tween about sex without fear or awkwardness, then I’m the sex educator that families across the globe turn to. An author, certified sexologist and a wonderfully AuDHD mother of two neurodivergent kids, I’m real, relatable and totally unshockable. I simplify sex ed so parents (like you) can start teaching their tween about sex ed. Minus the cringe or shame!

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