Proximity Is Power: Teaching Kids How Temptation Works Before It Works Them

Why do kids—and even adults—struggle to resist temptation, even when they “know better”? Because knowledge isn’t enough. In this episode, Instructor Mike breaks down the physics of temptation using real-life metaphors like magnets, rubber bands, and even nuclear bombs. You’ll learn why proximity builds pressure, how impulse control is shaped by setup, and why walking away early is a sign of strength, not weakness.

From toddlers eyeing candy to preteens navigating peer pressure, you’ll get developmentally appropriate tools to teach self-discipline, emotional regulation, and real-world problem-solving.

Key Takeaways:

• How proximity turns potential energy into action

• Why verbal rules aren’t enough without environment training

• Rubber band and role-play strategies for young learners

• Conversation tools for older kids to build internal boundaries

• The truth about temptation: you don’t win it in the moment—you win it in the setup

Tune in and train your kids—before temptation does.