Protecting Love With A Plan

Valentine’s Day is a perfect reminder that love isn’t just a feeling—it’s a plan. We sit down as father and son, both elder law attorneys, to map out clear steps that protect the people who matter most. From choosing a trustee for minor children to keeping your home out of probate, we explain how straightforward documents can prevent the messes that break hearts and budgets.

We start with practical strategies for families with kids: creating a trust that funds education and daily needs, naming a trustee you trust, and using term life insurance with smart beneficiary designations so money lands exactly where it should. Then we move to the home, walking through how an enhanced life estate—often called a Lady Bird deed—lets you keep control while ensuring the property passes smoothly to your chosen heirs without court delays. Along the way, we show when a trust and a deed can work together to add control and protection.

Spousal protection takes center stage as we unpack joint family trusts, general durable powers of attorney, and healthcare powers of attorney. Marriage alone won’t unlock IRAs, bank accounts, or real estate decisions; authority must be granted in writing. We share how to avoid costly guardianships, prepare for long-term care and creditor risks, and keep decisions in the family. Finally, we tackle blended-family pitfalls, explaining how intestacy can split assets in surprising ways—and why a clear will or trust prevents conflict and preserves peace.

If you want your love to last longer than flowers, give your family clarity, not questions. Subscribe, share this with someone who needs a nudge to plan, and leave a review with the one document you still need to sign.