Personal Bubbles and Boundaries: Understanding Proximity Across Cultures

Ever felt someone standing just a little too close—or maybe a bit too far away? In this episode of The Culture Hug Podcast, we explore the fascinating world of personal space and how it changes from one culture to another. From the wide personal bubbles of the U.S. to Japan’s quiet respect for physical distance, from the warm, close-contact norms of Southern Europe and South America to the bustling, shared-space realities of India and China, we break down what “comfortable” means around the globe. Drawing on credible cultural research and social science, we uncover why these differences exist—whether shaped by history, geography, or social values—and share tips for travelers, immigrants, and anyone navigating cross-cultural encounters. You’ll learn how to communicate personal space expectations without shaming, and how to embrace empathy in the process. Because sometimes, understanding the science behind “your bubble” is the first step to popping the stereotypes.


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