Hey NerdLovers, did you know that Doc has a new podcast? I've teamed up with my good friend (and actual doctor) Dr. Liz Powell to bring you some of the best dating discourse and relationship advice on the Internet, as well as some of the most eye-opening and jaw-dropping stories and topics around sex, love and dating. And hoooo doctor is this one a doozy.

If you've been missing the old PDNL podcast, this is one for you! Find us on all your favorite podcatchers, YouTube and Spotify!

Do Women Actually Care About Load Size…or is it Just Other Men?

Have you ever cared about the amount of someone's…ahem…ejaculation?

In this episode of Do As We Say, Not As They Did, Harris O'Malley and Dr. Liz Powell talk about the men who really, really care about shooting ropes like Spider-Man. That's right. They're talking about nutmaxxers. Fueled by the fantasies of porn and a desire for self-optimization, these men might say their "enhanced performance" is for their partners, but Dr. Liz and Harris have their doubts.

Highlights of the episode:

• Porn "money shots" aren't what you think

• Fast and Furious movies are a little like porn

• Having sex…with your balls?! 👀

If you're interested in staying blissfully unaware about the secret lives of nutmaxxers, turn away now, because things are about to get a little sticky.

Time Stamps

0:00 – Intro bloopers & ADHD brains unite

2:00 – Why this podcast is pre-recorded

5:00 – Meet the Nutmaxxers: semen obsession & supplement culture

10:00 – Cum fetish vs. the unbearable cringe of this article

14:00 – Porn isn't real

20:00 – Male insecurity

26:00 – Fantasy vs. reality

34:00 – "I don't want a gallon on my face"

38:00 – Micropenises, oral skills, and redefining good sex

45:00 – Bad partners, poor communication, and load shame

52:00 – Actually useful advice

58:00 – Why men need to listen (and not just to each other)

1:06:00 – What's really sexy

1:12:00 – Final thoughts: Be a person, not a cum performance robot

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Let's be honest: dating can be a trial. For a lot of men, dating isn't something you enjoy, it's something you endure. From trying to meet women, to getting a number, to actually getting women out on a date... it's more like pulling teeth than meeting a potential partner.

Today, I want to give you all some advice I wish I had gotten back when I first started dating. Because, if you're checking out these episodes, then the odds are good that, frankly, you think dating… kinda sucks. And in fairness: you're not entirely wrong. Dating for men can be kind of awful. But not for the reasons you might think.

In fact, the biggest reason why dating can suck is because of how much harder we men make it for OURSELVES and in the process, make ourselves miserable… even when we think we're doing everything right.

So let's look at 5 reasons why dating can SUCK for men… and what you can do about it.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:

• Why men have a conflict mentality when it comes to dating
• The secret to passing women's "tests"
• Why so much of what you believe about women, dating and sex is WRONG.
• How guys get caught in a cycle of dating failure
• Why you're taking the wrong advice about how to meet women

...and so much more.

RELATED LINKS:

How To Meet Women, Effortlessly

What Men Need To Know About Attraction

The Truth About Casual Sex (And Where To Get It)

This Is Why Online Dating Sucks

The Fear of Being Invisible

The Love Gap

Faking It: The Lies Women Tell About Sex and the Truths They Reveal

What Do Women Want: Adventures in the Science of Female Sexual Desire

Simplified Dating

Transcript available at doctornerdlove.com

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The most magnetic, charming and well liked people aren't popular because of their looks, their money, or their bodies. People like them because of they make others feel and the value that they bring into other peoples' lives.

These 5 qualities will help you create stronger, more profound connections with others, teach you to be instantly charismatic and become incredibly well liked by everyone around you.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:

• Why genuine likeability and personal magnetism are rare qualities, even in Hollywood
• Why sharing the spotlight makes you more popular
• How triggering one emotion in people makes them like you, instantly
• Why passion is so attractive in others
• How authenticity and vulnerability make people want to spend more time with you

...and so much more.

RELATED LINKS:

These Are The Things You Only Learn When Your Friend Dies

Popularity 101

The Value of Authenticity

The "It" Factor

How To Be Charming

Transcript available at doctornerdlove.com

Don't forget to subscribe and review us on iTunes , Stitcher, Spotify and on YouTube.

Like the podcast? Become a Dr. NerdLove patron at Patreon.com/DrNerdLove

Want more dating advice? Check out my books at www.www.doctornerdlove.com/books