Owning Goals Without Self-Sabotage

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We explore why success can feel scary and how to plan goals that match real life. We walk through counting the true cost, choosing fewer priorities, designing supportive environments, and ignoring comparison while honoring family seasons and personal values.

• success unease and identity friction
• counting cognitive, financial, emotional, physical load
• focusing on one or two priorities
• scheduling goals into weekly routines
• environment design for consistency
• planning big commitments like returning to school
• aligning goals with parenting and partnership
• rejecting comparison and copying others
• making conscious tradeoffs and delaying when needed