Out of Time, Into Myself

In today’s episode of 30 Days to 30, I reflect on the quiet but heavy pressure of life’s “timeline”—the one that tells us we’re supposed to have everything figured out by 30. I talk about the expectations I carried for years, the shame that came from not meeting them, and the freedom I found in finally letting them go.

This episode is about more than missing milestones. It’s about finding wholeness in solitude. I share how learning to be alone helped me hear my own voice again, reconnect with what matters, and build a life that feels like mine. And just as importantly, I open up about the next chapter: learning to let people back in after learning how to be okay alone.

If you’ve ever felt like you’re behind, like you missed the train, or like being alone meant something was wrong with you—this one’s for you. You're not late. You're right on time.

🗣️ “I’ve learned how to be alone—and now I’m learning how to let people in again. Both are acts of courage. Both are part of my becoming.”