What if the grief you've been avoiding is actually the doorway to your most profound pleasure? In this episdoe, somatic sexuality coach Victor Warring shares how his experiences sitting with death in the AIDS epidemic taught him that grief and eros are inseparable cousins—and why reconnecting with your "innate erotic intelligence" requires grieving the decades you've spent living in black-and-white when full color was always available. Victor explains why healing isn't about fixing what's broken but removing layers of cultural conditioning that have buried your birthright. Understand why our erotophobic culture systematically suppresses the wild, pleasurable creatures we were born to be, and what it takes to rewild your way back home.

Rahi sits down with somatic sex educator and pelvic healer Katie Spataro to explore her journey from engineering to embodiment. Katie shares how a miscarriage and an orgasmic birth transformed her path, how midwifery taught her the art of space-holding, and why she believes prostate fascial work is activism for our time. They also dive into community healing, survivor retreats, and the deep links between grief and pleasure

In this episode, Rahi Chun and erotic wholeness guide Darshana Avila explore how trauma-informed somatics and consent practices unlock the erotic as a force of healing, empowerment, and activism. They discuss the four phases of erotic liberation—regulation, receiving, allowing & expressing, and liberating Eros—and how each phase opens deeper intimacy and authenticity. This conversation unpacks why receiving is radical, how desire smuggling undermines trust, and why reclaiming our erotic power is essential to both personal fulfillment and collective liberation.