Think you have to lead like “one of the guys” to be taken seriously? Think again.

In this Badass Debrief, we break down the biggest takeaways from episode 392 with Tina Irwin—former Navy Commander turned metaphysical powerhouse—and what her story means for your leadership journey.

Spoiler: You don’t need louder opinions or more bravado to make waves.
You need strategy. Clarity. And the audacity to lead like you.

✨ Theme: Visibility & Advocacy
We’re talking how to stop waiting for permission, adapt without shrinking, and lead with more impact and less burnout.

You’ll hear:

🔥 Why being underestimated is actually leverage
💡 How to adapt without erasing who you are
💬 The reframe that turns self-doubt into strategy

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💬 DM me “TACTICAL” on Instagram @ordinarytobadass and I’ll send you a journaling prompt to reclaim your voice
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Think you need permission to lead boldly? Think again.

In this episode, Tina Erwin—retired Navy Commander, metaphysicist, and ghost helper—shares how she went from being the first woman in the room to rewriting the rules for everyone who followed. From being told “women don’t teach here” to teaching submarine captains when to launch a missile (no big deal), Tina gives us an unfiltered look at what it really takes to lead with courage, clarity, and zero apologies.

✨ Theme: Leadership That Doesn’t Sound Like a TED Talk
We’re talking tactical confidence, spiritual strength, and bold moves that break invisible rules.

You’ll hear:
🔥 How to play office politics without compromising your values
💡 What to say when people underestimate you—and why language matters more than you think
💬 Why being “the first” is brutal... and also beautifully necessary

🎁 Grab the free Breaking Barriers Guide at ordinarytobadass.com/barriers
💬 DM me @ordinarytobadass if this hit you right in the gut
⭐ Don’t forget to rate + review—think of it like sending your favorite rebel a shot of espresso in review form ☕💥

Think you need to check every box before going for the job or promotion? Think again.

In this episode, Marie breaks down why not fitting the job description might be your biggest advantage. Drawing from Darlene Green’s powerful story, this Badass Debrief is all about rewriting the rules, owning your worth, and leading in rooms that weren’t built for you—even when no one hands you a map.

✨ Theme: Resilience Stories / Visibility & Advocacy
We’re talking confidence when you’re underestimated, leadership that doesn’t ask for permission, and becoming the disruptor they didn’t see coming.

You’ll hear:

🔥 How Darlene went from “not qualified” to being called the best leader out of 350
💡 Why being the first—or only—woman in the room can actually be your power
💬 What to do when you’re doubting yourself and how to build your Badass Brag File

🎁 Grab the free Breaking Barriers Guide at ordinarytobadass.com/barriers
💬 DM @ordinarytobadass if this fired you up
⭐ Don’t forget to rate + review—because one woman’s badass move can spark a whole damn movement