Ryan Michler shares seven essential mindsets for effective money management in this episode of Friday Field Notes. Aimed at men striving to protect, provide, and preside, Michler emphasizes money as a tool and metric of value, urging listeners to overcome emotional pitfalls and societal misconceptions. He outlines a strategic approach—fortify, neutralize, attack—and stresses the importance of professional support. With practical wisdom, Michler empowers men to master their finances and fulfill their potential. Tune in to rethink money and elevate your financial game.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS
00:00 - Episode Introduction
00:37 - Money as a Metric of Value
02:57 - The Duty to Earn
07:45 - Money as a Tool
10:09 - Eliminating Emotions
15:00 - No Room for Amateurs
19:45 - Fortify, Neutralize, Attack
27:03 - Knowing Your Role

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Join Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen in this week's Ask Me Anything, exploring the pursuit of pleasure versus the pleasure of pursuit, the cultural shift of young men toward the right, and the power of solitude. They tackle listener questions on imposter syndrome, fatherhood, divorce, dating, financial decisions, and personal growth. With humor and insight, they debunk overhyped headlines, like the "astronaut" space crew, and share actionable advice for living purposefully.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS
00:00 - Opening Banter and Headlines
01:25 - The Pleasure of Pursuit
06:30 - Space Crew Rant
13:06 - Imposter Syndrome in Job Interviews
20:42 - Lessons from Kids
24:06 - Patience as a Father
28:40 - Why Women Leave Relationships
37:43 - Dating After Divorce
44:36 - Making Financial Decisions
48:08 - Lessons from Hard Times
53:59 - Young Men Moving Right Politically
59:26 - Call to Action

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It’s no secret that most men want to find love in life and someone they can partner with throughout life. But the reality is that far-fewer men are doing the work required than ever before. And, for those who are actively looking for love, many of them are floundering when it comes to approaching women and building interest that could potentially lead to a long-term relationship.

David Meessen is a man who has made it his life’s work to help men understand why they struggle and why society, at large, seems to be continually stacking the deck against the type of relationships the men listening to this podcast are looking for. Today we talk about why men seem to be so intimidated in approaching women, the skills (and, they are learnable skills) you can develop to have a more successful dating life, why “Progressive Desensitization” is such a valuable option in love and in life, the alarming statistics around romantic relationships and young men’s increasing aversion to them, and how radical honestly (not overly-agreeableness) is what creates attraction.

00:00 – Opening & Dating Stats Alarming for Men
01:34 – The Harsh Reality of Dating Apps
03:09 – How Dating Apps Work Against Most Men
04:27 – Learning to Play the Dating Game
05:26 – Sacrificing Values for Connection
06:37 – Approach Anxiety and Desensitization
08:51 – Start Small: Building Momentum Through Socializing
10:01 – Rejection is Often Kind – and Necessary
11:23 – Don’t Pedestalize Her – Have Options
12:46 – We Live in a Friendly or Hostile Universe
14:16 – Oversharing as a Powerful Connection Tool
15:21 – Men Struggle to Share Their Strengths
16:29 – Assume the Burden of the Conversation
17:51 – Bitterness Towards Women & Scarcity Mindset
19:58 – Reality is Better Than Fear-Based Fantasies
22:13 – You Crave the Experience, Not the Person
23:31 – Compatibility vs. Chemistry
25:16 – Communication is a Learnable Skill
26:29 – Influence vs. Manipulation
30:54 – Authenticity in Style & Presence
32:34 – Confidence is Just as Authentic as Humility
33:10 – Radical Honesty and Sharing Values Early
35:42 – Relationships Built on Aligned Values
37:27 – Disagreement is Attractive
39:33 – Common Mistakes in Online & Real-Life Dating
41:39 – Learn Humor to Boost Social Skills
43:03 – Don’t Skip the Ask – Get the Contact
44:59 – Women Get Approached Less Than You Think
46:11 – How to Approach in the Gym the Right Way
47:52 – Meeting Quality Men Matters Too
49:03 – Why Intelligent Men Struggle with Connection
52:15 – Expression Freedom & Compatibility
53:22 – Choose to See the Best in Each Other
54:26 – Final Thoughts & Where to Find David

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In this episode of Friday Field Notes, Ryan Michler explores the concept of self-betrayal, defining it as failing to act on known responsibilities or instincts. He discusses its consequences, including anxiety, poor relationships, and unfulfilled potential, and identifies emotional signs like frustration and impatience. Ryan provides actionable steps to overcome self-betrayal, such as listing neglected tasks, taking immediate action, and journaling emotions.

Encouraging listeners to align actions with their values, he offers resources at orderofman.com. Tune in to learn how to bridge the integrity gap and live a more fulfilled life.

00:00 - Introduction to Self-Betrayal

02:55 - Sources of Intuition and Emotion

05:19 - Consequences of Self-Betrayal

07:44 - Recognizing Self-Betrayal Symptoms

12:30 - External vs. Internal Factors

19:25 - Actionable Steps to Overcome Self-Betrayal

26:05 - Journaling and Reflecting

28:30 - Additional Resources and Closing

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Join Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen for an engaging "Ask Me Anything" episode, tackling listener questions on personal growth, trust, and balance. From auditing life’s decisions to rebuilding trust with kids, they dive into coachability, journaling, and managing overwork.

Ryan shares insights from his Texas hunting trip and mentions The Men's Forge event (May 1-4). Expect raw reflections on letting go, choosing yourself, and earning trust, with practical advice for intentional living.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS
00:00 - Episode Introduction
00:20 - Morning Routine Struggles
03:41 - Auditing Life’s Decisions
15:45 - One Principle for Your Son
20:42 - Prioritizing Self vs. Promises
25:33 - Books That Shape You
37:18 - Why Start Journaling
42:06 - Signs of Overworking
47:36 - Rebuilding Trust with Kids
55:03 - Texas Hunting Trip Recap
59:14 - The Men's Forge Event Promo

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It’s hard to believe that in the year 2025, child sex trafficking is as prolific as it is today. How is that with all the laws, legislation, and awareness that we’re still dealing with the torment of sexual exploitation with our sons and daughters?

My guest today, Nate Lewis, has made it his life’s work to combat and overcoming the epidemic that is plaguing every corner of society. And, not only that, he is a huge proponent of finding your own mission and pouring all in on that – whatever it may be. Today, Nate and I talk about the driving factors behind child exploitation, why YOU should address the societal injustices you see in society today, the power of coachability and gritty-ness in your pursuit of your dreams, and why and how to protect yourself, society, and children from the nastiness and perversion of modern culture.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS

00:00:00 - Introduction
00:00:20 - Welcoming Nate Lewis
00:00:36 - The Reality of Child Trafficking
00:01:46 - Protecting Boys and Girls
00:02:49 - Impact of Pornography
00:08:40 - Operation Underground Railroad
00:09:38 - Nate’s Background in Film
00:10:35 - First Deployment Experience
00:13:37 - Stories of Resilience
00:15:59 - Family and Mission Balance
00:18:31 - The Innocent Logo Origin
00:24:32 - Purpose Through Adversity
00:31:23 - Advice for Pursuing Purpose
00:37:44 - Work Ethic and Grit
00:43:14 - Community Involvement Strategies
00:50:46 - Law Enforcement Priorities
00:57:11 - Confronting Ignorance
01:04:13 - How to Support The Innocent
01:12:08 - Closing Thoughts

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In this episode of Friday Field Notes, Ryan Michler draws inspiration from Theodore Roosevelt’s iconic speech to explore resilience and masculinity. Michler challenges men to rise above criticism, embrace adversity, and take action despite life’s inevitable setbacks. Through personal anecdotes and practical advice, he outlines steps to build confidence, act decisively, and critique oneself constructively without losing identity.

Ryan emphasizes that true manhood shines in moments of struggle, urging listeners to live boldly as the "man in the arena." Tune in for an inspiring call to courage and purposeful action.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS
00:10.082 - Introduction to Man in the Arena
02:02.508 - Reading the Man in the Arena Excerpt
04:28.674 - Preparing for Life’s Battles
06:51.744 - Stop Seeking Approval
11:10.03 - The Confidence Continuum
13:30.466 - Do What You Can
17:50.552 - Action as the Antidote
20:14.158 - Critique Without Self-Destruction
22:13.102 - Take More Action
26:42.7 - Closing and Battle Ready Program

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In this "Ask Me Anything" episode, Kipp Sorensen and Shawn Villalovos tackle your burning questions with raw, actionable insights. From investing $10K wisely to navigating trivial work tasks, coaching U13 soccer teams, and guiding high-performing teens, they cover it all. Plus, hear candid advice on silencing self-criticism and handling toxic colleagues.

Packed with life lessons on leadership, choice, and growth, this episode delivers real talk for real challenges. Tune in for wisdom that cuts through the noise—perfect for anyone ready to level up in work, family, and beyond.

SHOW HIGHLIGHTS
00:03 - Intro Banter
03:02 - Investing $10K Smartly
10:26 - Escaping the Trivial Whirlwind
24:18 - Leading a U13 Soccer Team
36:41 - Guiding Teenage Sons
46:21 - Overcoming Self-Criticism
58:30 - Dealing with Toxic Colleagues
01:12:53 - Closing Thoughts

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