On Target Mini - Tommy

In this special, longer-than-usual episode of On Target Minis, host Matthew Ramsay is joined by Nelson (House Manager at Houck House), Jon Joseph (Community Living Director), and Gail Garland (end-of-life doula) for an honest conversation honoring the life of Tommy Sponseller, a longtime Target residential participant who passed away on October 9.

The episode opens with the eulogy read at Tommy’s service—an intimate portrait of a Santa-loving, cheeseburger-eating, magazine-flipping original whose life reflects both the harsh legacy of institutionalization and the possibility that comes with dignity, belonging, and consistent support. From stories of Tommy’s joy in the community (and his legendary love of bands, sports, and the holidays) to a candid look at what it means for an agency to walk with someone through hospice and loss, this conversation explores the realities behind end-of-life care in disability services: advocacy in medical settings, supporting direct support professionals, and creating meaningful rituals of remembrance.

More than a tribute, this episode is also a practical resource—offering insights for staff, leaders, and families navigating grief and the responsibilities that come with caring relationships.