Old money vs new money beauty, grooming, and etiquette

In this week’s episode of Awkward Etiquette with Kiki Astor, we’re diving into the fascinating—and often unspoken—world of grooming, beauty, and personal presentation in high society. What’s the difference between old money grooming and new money beauty trends? Why does understated polish signal heritage wealth, while flashy cosmetic enhancements can read as nouveau riche? From skincare routines and subtle hair maintenance to manicure etiquette, fragrance choices, and the art of looking “effortlessly well-kept,” Kiki unpacks the codes that separate discreet refinement from try-hard opulence.

Whether you’re curious about old money style, preparing for social events, or simply want to elevate your everyday grooming habits with timeless elegance, this episode blends etiquette, history, and humor into practical advice you can use. Expect tips on navigating salon culture, luxury beauty treatments, cosmetic procedures, and the do’s and don’ts of presenting yourself with sophistication in any setting.