In this episode, we delve into the intricate world of Enneagram Type 4, also known as the Romantic or Individualist. If you are a Type 4 or raising one, you are likely familiar with their deep emotional landscape, creativity, and struggles with feelings of envy and loneliness. Host [Your Name], a Type 4 herself, shares personal insights and practical strategies learned from years of transforming negative thoughts and emotions. This episode provides valuable tips for understanding and supporting Type 4s in navigating their intense emotions and finding fulfillment.

Key Points:

• Characteristics of Type 4: Emotional, intuitive, often feeling misunderstood, and struggling with envy.
• Common Struggles: Loneliness, longing, emotional intensity, and fear of being ordinary.
• Practical Tips:
  • Validating and empathizing with their deep emotions.
  • Encouraging creativity and authenticity.
  • Helping them reframe thoughts through gratitude.
  • Teaching coping strategies like journaling and breathing exercises.
  • Finding communities that appreciate their unique perspective.

Parenting Type 4s:

• Emotional Support: Creating a safe space for them to express their feelings and ensuring they feel understood.
• Encouragement: Praising their unique contributions and helping them find like-minded peers.
• Managing Comparisons: Fostering gratitude and contentment with what they have.

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Today’s episode is about the Type 3 Achiever, which is a type that almost everyone resonates with. Because America is the land of the three, the land of chasing success. Almost everyone, including myself has fallen into the comparison trap and found themselves feeling inadequate or like they aren’t enough. Is your to do list a mile long? Do you have a hard time relaxing? Type 2, 3 and 4 are all in the heart center, focused on receiving attention and presenting a certain image. A Type 2 wants to be seen as likable and helpful and a type 3 wants to be seen as charming and successful. Failure for a type 3 brings crushing shame and often denial. In the world of likes and followers, a type 3 can be on quite an emotional rollercoaster by placing their self-worth in the hands of their achievements and abilities. Many parents, without realizing it, are feeding this achievement cycle. Tune in to this episode to discover the 5 major thought patterns of a type 3, the emotions and actions those thoughts produce and how a Type 3 can reframe those thoughts to feel better and discover their true identity. Be sure to listen to episode 18 on how to transform your thoughts because it is the foundation of the entire enneagram system and the absolute best way to change your life for the better!

Website: Wendy Gossett.com Get FREE resources on my website: https://wendygossett.com/category/resources/ or email me at WendyGossett.com

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In this episode, we shift focus from the body center to the heart center, which includes Enneagram types 2, 3, and 4. The heart center deals with issues of attention and self-image, often grappling with feelings of grief, shame, and worthlessness. We dive deep into the characteristics of Type 2s, who derive their self-worth from being helpful and appreciated by others, but may struggle with insecurity and dependence on external validation.

We'll discuss how to identify and reframe negative thought patterns common to Type 2s, providing strategies for fostering self-awareness and healthier relationships. An illustrative listener's story about a Type 2 ESFJ daughter highlights practical advice on using a two-way journal to improve communication and understanding between parents and children.

Key insights include recognizing the importance of self-care, managing feelings of guilt and overwhelm, and addressing deeper psychological patterns rooted in childhood experiences. We'll also explore the unique challenges Type 2s face, such as dealing with pride, resentment, and the tendency toward martyrdom.

Join us as we offer tools and insights to help Type 2s find their own worth and navigate their emotional landscapes more effectively.

Website: Wendy Gossett.com Get FREE resources on my website: https://wendygossett.com/category/resources/ or email me at WendyGossett.com

Get a FREE Child Temperament Test when you join my Not So Normal Parenting Facebook Community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/notsonormalparenting

Book: Your Child's Inner Drive:Parenting by Personality from Toddlers to Teens on Amazon or https://wendygossett.com/product/your-childs-inner-drive-parenting-by-personality-for-toddlers-to-teens/

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