• Is conversion a one-time event, or a lifelong journey with Jesus?
• What do you do when your frustration feels overwhelming?
• Isn't it concerning that theological colleges in the UK are shutting down in the same context where revival is rising?
• What alternative approach can we take to correct our misbehaving kid rather than the typical African 'mama-bear' approach?
• Life is short! Shouldn't we slow down, rest well, and take good care of ourselves?

Welcome back to another episode of the Not Alone Today Podcast! 🎙️ In this episode, Joseph and Anu share real-life stories, lessons, and reflections from recent weeks — from rethinking conversion as an ongoing journey, to finding practical ways of staying grounded when frustration hits. They also wrestle with the paradox of revival and seminary closures, the surprising joy that comes from obeying small divine nudges, and a gentler, prayerful way of correcting children. And yes — they remind us why prioritising health and rest is not just wise but deeply spiritual.

This episode is packed with encouragement, honest reflections, and everyday wisdom to help you live lighter, calmer, and closer to God.

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Remember: you are Not Alone Today — and God’s grace is enough to strengthen and guide you through every season of life.

On Blessings, Atlanta '96, Church, and William Carey

Not Alone Today Podcast | Season 6 Episode 2

What do you do in the following circumstances:

1. When God does not come in ways that match your expectations?
2. When you find yourself in situations that seem larger than you are capable of dealing with?
3. When you do not feel motivated to go to church?
4. When your spouse does not fully share what you believe to be your calling?

Welcome back to another episode of the Not Alone Today podcast! In this episode, Joseph and Anu reflect on some lessons they are learning in recent weeks.

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Stay connected with us as we journey together through life issues, constantly reminding one another that we are Not Alone Today. You can like our Facebook page at⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.facebook.com/notalonetoday⁠⁠ or join Alive Mentorship Group at ⁠⁠https://www.facebook.com/groups/alivementorship⁠⁠. If you have questions or topics you'd like us to explore in future episodes, you can submit them through our website — ⁠⁠https://www.josephkolawole.org/contact⁠⁠ or reach out on social media. Remember, you are not alone on this journey, and God's grace is sufficient to strengthen and guide you through any challenges that arise.

On Parenting, Jürgen Klopp, Weapon of Silence, and Slow Progress

Not Alone Today Podcast | Season 6 Episode 1

Welcome back to another episode of the Not Alone Today podcast! In this episode, Joseph and Anu reflect on some lessons they are learning in recent weeks.

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Join the "Not Alone Today" Community

Stay connected with us as we journey together through life issues, constantly reminding one another that we are Not Alone Today. You can like our Facebook page at⁠ ⁠⁠https://www.facebook.com/notalonetoday⁠ or join Alive Mentorship Group at ⁠https://www.facebook.com/groups/alivementorship⁠. If you have questions or topics you'd like us to explore in future episodes, you can submit them through our website — ⁠https://www.josephkolawole.org/contact⁠ or reach out on social media. Remember, you are not alone on this journey, and God's grace is sufficient to strengthen and guide you through any challenges that arise.

Avoiding Distractions in a Long-Distance Marriage

Not Alone Today Podcast | Season 5 Episode 3

Welcome back to another episode of the Not Alone Today podcast! In this episode, Nike asks a follow-up question to Timothy's question which we treated in the last episode (titled When a Couple's Attraction Wanes). Nike asks,

“How can I maintain focus and keep the attraction alive in my long-distance marriage? I'm feeling emotionally confused and relying on my faith for support. I can't help but notice other attractive guys, but I've accepted the reality of our separation. 🤷🏻‍♀️ Managing three kids alone leaves me exhausted in the evenings, and sometimes I fall asleep before calling him. He always wants to talk, but I can't always find the time. 🫣 What should I do about these distractions and the temptation of other attractive men? 👀😁”

Some Resources Mentioned in the episode:

• Couply - a mobile app that helps couples connect and build stronger relationships

• NIV Couples' Devotional Bible

• S5E02 - When a Couple's Attraction Wanes

Biblical Insight 

• We highlighted Philippians 4:8-9 as a guardrail to implementing the ideas and tips shared in the episode.

How to Listen to the Episode

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Join the "Not Alone Today" Community

Stay connected with us as we journey together through life issues, constantly reminding one another that we are Not Alone Today. You can like our Facebook page at⁠ ⁠⁠https://www.facebook.com/notalonetoday⁠ or join Alive Mentorship Group at ⁠https://www.facebook.com/groups/alivementorship⁠. If you have questions or topics you'd like us to explore in future episodes, you can submit them through our website — ⁠https://www.josephkolawole.org/contact⁠ or reach out on social media. Remember, you are not alone on this journey, and God's grace is sufficient to strengthen and guide you through any challenges that arise.

When a Couple's Attraction Wanes

Not Alone Today Podcast | Season 5 Episode 2

Welcome back to another episode of the Not Alone Today podcast! In this episode, we dive into a question from a listener named Timothy who asks,

“How can I handle the situation when I find myself getting less attracted to my wife due to certain habits or attitudes she wouldn't change? Communication is a major challenge between us. I value class and taste, while she seems more laid-back about appearances. How can I address this and understand her perspective better?”

Timothy's question revolves around how to handle the situation when he feels less attracted to his wife due to her unwillingness to change certain habits and attitudes. He also seeks guidance on addressing the issue of communication challenges and understanding his wife's perspective better.

Some Key Highlights

• The importance of valuing what God values in a marriage

• The significance of communication, vulnerability, and acceptance in fostering a loving and harmonious relationship.

• The power of laughter and finding joy in everyday moments to strengthen the connection between partners.

• Embracing each other's unique traits and differences rather than trying to change one another.

Biblical Insight 

Drawing from 1 Peter 3, we emphasise the value of inner beauty—a calm and gentle spirit—as being precious in the eyes of God. This insight encourages spouses to focus on the beauty that comes from within and align their values with what God values.

Practical Tips

• Encourage open and honest communication in the relationship, with a focus on understanding each other rather than trying to make a point.

• Find creative ways to express love languages to one another, making correction more romantic than confrontational.

• Embrace each other's differences and learn to find joy in them, recognising that attraction evolves over time.

How to Listen to the Episode

https://www.josephkolawole.org/notalonetoday

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Join the "Not Alone Today" Community

Stay connected with us as we journey together through life issues, constantly reminding one another that we are Not Alone Today. You can like our Facebook page at https://www.facebook.com/notalonetoday or join Alive Mentorship Group at https://www.facebook.com/groups/alivementorship. If you have questions or topics you'd like us to explore in future episodes, you can submit them through our website — https://www.josephkolawole.org/contact or reach out on social media. Remember, you are not alone on this journey, and God's grace is sufficient to strengthen and guide you through any challenges that arise.

In this episode, we reflect on the previous year and the transition into a new year.

We discussed the following among others:

• ✥ Highlights of 2022
• ✥ The merits and demerits of making new year resolutions
• ✥ Daily Audio Bible Chronological (https://player.dailyaudiobible.com/chronological)
• ✥ The concept of naming a new year
• ✥ A warning against distraction

You can click on any of the links to listen . . . and please, remember to share.

• ✥ Joseph's Website — https://www.josephkolawole.org/notalonetoday/
• ✥ Other Podcast Platforms — https://pod.link/1537774506

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This is a 6-in-1 special episode bringing together over two hours of Relationship Content from the Not Alone Today Podcast.

For easy navigation, here's a guide:

• 0:00  ⏩  1. Help! I Don't Like Who God Wants Me To Marry 
• 19:07  ⏩  2. Marrying a Pastor 
• 45:14  ⏩  3. Becoming the Right Person While Waiting for the Right Person
• 01:12:40  ⏩  4. The Audacity of Marrying on a 'God Said' Basis
• 01:30:15  ⏩  5. Being Sure of Who to Marry
• 01:51:47  ⏩  6. Am I Ready for a Relationship?

You can click on any of the links to listen . . . and please, remember to share.

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In today's episode, we respond to Chika's question sent in from Lagos, Nigeria. Here's her question:

"What do you do when you try to work out your relationship with other people and it seems like the more you try to 'express' who you are, they keep misunderstanding?"

We discussed a few possibilities for Chika's consideration including but not limited to:

✥ The possibility that God may be teaching Chika some patience

✥ The possibility that Chika may be surrounding herself with the wrong inner circle

✥ The possible flaws in Chika's attempt to "express who she is"

✥ The possibility that Chika may be unpacking the gift of 'not fitting in', which is often a prerequisite for a call into PIONEERING one form of ministry or the other.

For more on the last point, we mentioned the works of Jonny Baker who has written a lot of insightful materials on the gift of not fitting and pioneer practice as a whole. 

You can click on any of the links to listen . . . and please, remember to share.

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