New Year, Same Patterns? Let’s Set Real Love Intentions

New year… same patterns?In this Real Love Scenario episode, Dre and Rhonda unpack what it really means to set intentions for love in the new year — for both singles and couples.
We talk about how to stop repeating old patterns, let go of pressure, and build a deeper relationship with how you love — not just whoyou love.
💭 Topics We Explore:

• Intentions vs. resolutions (clarity, not pressure)
• Pattern-based dating vs. purpose-driven dating
• How to set love goals that are actually healthy
• What intentional partnership looks like (beyond vision boards)
• Rhonda’s tips for singles & Dre’s advice for couples

🔁 Pattern or Intention?“I just want to see what happens” = Pattern“I want consistency, not just chemistry” = Intention“I’m choosing peace this year” = Let’s break that one down…
💚 For Singles:

• Date with clarity, not urgency
• Vet for alignment, not just attraction
• Take breaks without giving up

💞 For Couples:

• Improve communication, not just commitment
• Repair, don’t avoid conflict
• Be intentional with time, affection, and appreciation

✍🏽 Try This:Choose one word for your love life this year.Write 3 intentions, not outcomes.Ask yourself: What can I give, not just what do I want?
🧠 Wrap line: “You don’t need a new relationship — you need a new relationship with how you love.”
💬 Drop your word for the year in the comments!
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