What happens after the system of masking collapses? For many, it feels like the end, but Dr. Marshack argues it is actually where the real work of the relationship begins.

In this episode, Dr. Marshack shares a profound letter from Richard, a NeuroDiverse husband in his 70s who has embraced his "EMD 0" status not as an excuse, but as a starting point for genuine growth. You will learn the 7-Step Interface Protocol, a roadmap designed to help both NeuroTypical and NeuroDiverse partners navigate the aftermath of a collapse.

From building resilience to becoming "Empathy Triad Engaged," this episode provides the vocabulary and the framework needed to move from transactional behavior to a rebuilt, authentic life. As Richard reminds us: "Autism is not an excuse."

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If you are looking for more resources for NeuroDivergent relationships, start with Unlocking NeuroDivergent Relationships, a Comprehensive Resource Preview.

The Discussion Continues: Join the confidential Podcast After Party for this episode! Check the schedule at Thinkific and the Meetup group.

Future of Healing: Dr. Kathy is developing two innovative video games: Radiant Empathy: A Journey of Heartbreak and Healing and The University of NeuroDiversity: Radiant Empathy Campus.

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We often hear "unmasking" described as a liberating and joyful journey toward the authentic self. But for many in NeuroDivergent relationships, unmasking feels like a devastating collapse.

In this episode, Dr. Marshack uses General Systems Theory to explain why masking is a system "doomed to fail" as we mature. Masking works by managing bits of data, but it lacks the context sensitivity required for deep relational intimacy and complex life stages. When this system fails, triggered by burnout, retirement, or a partner's withdrawal, the result isn't always freedom; it is often depression, rage, and a sensation of the "brain on fire."

Learn why transactional behavior cannot sustain a long-term partnership and discover the tools needed to move from a "meltdown that lasts for years" to a rebuilt, authentic life.

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If you are looking for more resources for NeuroDivergent relationships, start with Unlocking NeuroDivergent Relationships, a Comprehensive Resource Preview.

The Discussion Continues: Join the confidential Podcast After Party for this episode! Check the schedule at Thinkific and the Meetup group.

Future of Healing: Dr. Kathy is developing two innovative video games: Radiant Empathy: A Journey of Heartbreak and Healing and The University of NeuroDiversity: Radiant Empathy Campus.

➡️ Find more resources at https://asd-ntrelationships.com/

For many NeuroDivergent families, the holidays are less about joy and more about managing the "offline" state of the brain. When anxiety rises, thinking disappears—for both NeuroTypical and NeuroDiverse partners alike.

In this episode, Dr. Marshack shifts the focus from "fixing" symptoms to the power of regulation. She shares why regulated people tend to find each other across continents and why distance often clarifies rather than weakens a bond.

You will learn the difference between mere survival and true "organization," why growth sometimes has a velocity that love struggles to match, and what it truly means to have a "spine" in your relationship.

If you’re looking for deeper resonance in your community, this episode offers a roadmap for staying thoughtful under pressure and reclaiming your own nervous system.

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If you are looking for more resources for NeuroDivergent relationships, start with Unlocking NeuroDivergent Relationships, a Comprehensive Resource Preview.

The Discussion Continues: Join the confidential Podcast After Party for this episode! Check the schedule at Thinkific and the Meetup group.

Future of Healing: Dr. Kathy is developing two innovative video games: Radiant Empathy: A Journey of Heartbreak and Healing and The University of NeuroDiversity: Radiant Empathy Campus.

➡️ Find more resources at https://asd-ntrelationships.com/