Narcissism: tools for coaches and their clients

In this episode we explore how coaches can support clients who are dealing with a narcissistic boss. We unpack what narcissism truly means - beyond social media clichés - and discuss the difference between narcissistic personality disorder and narcissistic tendencies that may still create toxic dynamics at work.

We highlight common signs that a client might be working for a narcissist, such as self-doubt, confusion, or feeling “never good enough,” and examine the systemic factors that can keep such leaders in place. We emphasise the importance of reflective practice and supervision to help coaches avoid collusion and remain grounded, especially when personal triggers or family histories come into play.

We offer practical strategies for helping clients manage these complex relationships, from strengthening boundaries and self-care to finding support outside the organisation. We also discuss when a more directive coaching style may be needed, and how compassion - for both client and boss - can bring balance and perspective to this challenging dynamic.