My Son Doesn’t Need Fixing

This week, I talk about a word that comes up far too often when you’re raising a child like my son Lucas: “fix.”

For many people, it sounds logical. If a child is nonverbal or has autism, they must need to be corrected, changed, or fixed. But as Lucas has grown, I’ve learned something very different. My son isn’t broken. He never was.

In this episode, I share how my perspective changed over time, from trying to correct the way Lucas played and communicated to realizing that teaching and fixing are not the same thing. I talk about the moments that helped me understand his world, why I would never want to change who he is, and how acceptance, trust, and patience shaped the bond we share today.

It’s an honest conversation about parenting, expectations, and what it really means to love your child unconditionally.

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