Motherhood Propaganda We're Not Falling for and Letting Go of “Perfect” Motherhood

Welcome back to The Night Feed. I’m Charlotte, and this episode is for the mums who feel like motherhood keeps getting louder; more rules, more opinions, more pressure, just when you’re already running on empty.

The emotions book: The Colour Monster by Anna Llenas.

💌 Weaning Without Losing Your Mind
A listener writes in about feeling overwhelmed by weaning: purées vs baby-led weaning, allergens, schedules, and Instagram meals that look better than adult dinners. I talk about how I approached weaning, how much I leaned on instinct, and why there isn’t one “right” way, just what works for your baby and your family.

😴 Contact Naps & “Bad Habits”
Another mum asks whether she should be “working on” putting her newborn down, or whether contact naps are something to lean into. I share my honest thoughts on early sleep, habit anxiety, and why meeting your baby’s needs isn’t creating problems, it’s parenting.

💭 The Biggest Lies We’re Sold as New Mums
I read through a brilliant thread on the propaganda many of us fell for; from drowsy-but-awake myths, to thinking baby sleep can be fixed, to realising just how unsupported mothers actually are. It’s validating, funny, and painfully true.

📈 What’s Trending: Analog Motherhood
Doing less. Trusting more. Stepping away from constant optimisation and back toward intuition.

🧹 Self-Care Suggestion:
Have a clear out — physically or mentally. Less stuff, less noise, less pressure.

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