Morning Wood: Redefining Connection, Community, and Queer Joy (Epi 48)

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What happens when queer community building gets moved to the morning--bright, intentional, and phone-free? In this episode of The Mindfully Gay Podcast, hosts John Cottrell and Jerry Buie sit down with Landon and Kevin, creators of Morning Wood (@morningwoodparty), a daytime, sex-positive social gathering designed to foster real connection, body positivity, and inclusive community--without the noise, the post-midnight pressure, or the performative vibe.

You'll hear how a barber-chair idea became a fast-growing movement where men of all ages, bodies, and backgrounds meet, talk, flirt, and (if they choose) explore intimacy--with consent and communication at the center. We unpack how Morningwood challenges hyper-edited "Instigay" norms, why banning phones actually lowers anxiety and boosts conversation, and how trained social hosts help newcomers feel welcome from the moment they step in.

The conversation also explores:

- Body image & age inclusivity: showing real people, not perfection filters

- Social anxiety tools: intention-setting, opt-in spaces, and "choose-your-own-adventure" design

- Sexual wellness with Legacy Health (Utah AIDS Foundation): testing, PrEP/DoxyPEP education, and game nights as low-pressure entry points

- Post-pandemic reconnection: rebuilding face-to-face community with mindful structure

- Queer innovation: expanding the cultural narrative beyond nightlife to joy, safety, and belonging

If you've ever wondered where to meet quality people in a respectful, affirming environment--or how to host gatherings that balance pleasure, safety, and authenticity--this episode is your roadmap.

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