Monocopsis, Belonging, and the Power of Story: A Conversation with Dr. Liz DeBetta

What if the very thing that made you feel “out of place” your whole life finally had a name?

In this profoundly resonant episode, Brian welcomes Dr. Liz DeBetta—author, performer, and advocate—to explore themes of adoption, neurodivergence, trauma, and the healing power of storytelling. Liz opens up about her lived experience as an adoptee, her solo show Unmothered, and the emotional journey of reclaiming her voice.

This conversation is for anyone who's ever asked, “Where do I belong?”—and for those raising, loving, or supporting someone who has.

You’ll hear about:

• The obscure word that perfectly names the feeling of not belonging

• How early trauma can result in acquired neurodivergence

• The hidden challenges adoptees face—even in loving homes

• Why storytelling is not just healing, but revolutionary

• How Liz’s solo show became a catalyst for connection and change

• Monocopsis: a persistent feeling of being out of place—finally, a word for it.

• Early maternal separation can rewire the nervous system in lasting ways.

• Writing and art offer powerful tools to process grief, identity, and loss.

• The system often pathologizes trauma responses instead of addressing root causes.

• Healing begins when we name what we've been afraid to say out loud.

Feeling seen by Liz’s story? You’re not alone. Explore her solo show Unmothered and other work by visiting her website or following her journey online.

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