Mindset Matters: Carl Simpson on the Power of Self-Belief and Personal Development

Joe engages in a candid conversation with Carl Simpson, who shares his remarkable journey from a challenging childhood to a successful career in the military and beyond. Carl opens up about his experiences growing up in a broken home, facing bullying, and turning to drugs as a means of escape. After a life-changing moment during a drug-induced episode, he decided to join the military, where he served multiple tours in Afghanistan and Iraq as part of the RAF Regiment. Throughout the discussion, Carl emphasizes the importance of mindset, personal development, and the power of community support. He reflects on his transition from military life to becoming a mindset coach, highlighting the significance of self-belief, consistency, and the impact of one's environment on mental health. KEY TAKEAWAYS Overcoming Adversity: The journey from a challenging childhood, including bullying and family issues, to a successful military career, highlights the importance of resilience and the ability to rise above difficult circumstances. Mindset and Self-Belief: Developing a strong mindset is crucial for success. The importance of self-belief and the ability to reframe negative thoughts into positive actions is emphasised, showcasing that personal growth often stems from overcoming self-imposed limitations. Value of Experience: The transition from military service to coaching and mentoring illustrates how experiences, both good and bad, can shape one's career path and lead to new opportunities, such as becoming a mindset coach. Importance of Community: Surrounding oneself with a positive and supportive network is essential for mental health and personal development. The influence of peers can significantly impact one's mindset and overall success. Continuous Learning and Adaptation: Engaging in ongoing education, such as pursuing qualifications in nutrition and personal training, demonstrates the value of lifelong learning and adapting to new challenges in order to achieve personal and professional goals. BEST MOMENTS "I came down from like a weird high and I was just like, I'm done. I need to get out. I need to get out of Dodge and that's why I joined the military." "I was sold a dream that I'd be parachuting, would be rocking around in with like machine guns on tour, you know, doing stuff that I wanted to do." "Being bullied can really knock you for six, can't it? And then maybe, how much would you agree with the fact that you were looking to be accepted, which meant you went into the drug fraternity?" "I think most people put self-imposed glass ceilings over their head and think, I can't do this. How'd you know? You've not tried." VALUABLE RESOURCES https://www.linkedin.com/in/itsjoeoconnor/ https://www.facebook.com/The1Transformer https://www.instagram.com/the1transformer/ HOST BIO Joe O'Connor is a resilient business entrepreneur and Financial Adviser dedicated to supporting business owners and veterans in their transition to civilian life. Despite facing life-threatening challenges at a young age, Joe defied the odds and embarked on a remarkable journey. From excelling as a Combat Engineer and Physical Training Instructor in the Royal Engineers to starting his own business as a Financial Adviser, Joe has displayed unwavering determination. After rejoining the Army as a reservist in the Bomb Disposal Unit, Joe reached the rank of Sergeant before transferring to the SAS, where he endured a severe injury and was medically discharged. Undeterred, he resumed his role as an IFA and founded a charity that aids injured veterans and their families. Joe's charity is currently finalizing plans for a training center and 23 Lodges, aiming to provide vital support for veterans transitioning to civilian life while addressing stress, anxiety, and PTSD. Today, Joe's mission is to unite business owners and veterans, helping them unleash their full potential for success.