So many of us walk around believing failure means we’ve messed up, fallen short, or somehow missed the mark. But what emotional intelligence practitioner Mike Martin and I explore in this episode of Mind Bites is something much deeper: that what we call “failure” is often just a moment where we’ve lost belief in ourselves, or absorbed someone else’s fears or idea of who we should be.

Mike and I dive into why mistakes are not signs of failure at all—they’re signs of growth. And how choosing new language can give you the emotional freedom take risks, and move with more confidence.

If the idea of failure has been steering your decisions or dimming your self-belief, this conversation might just give you the clarity you need to redefine it for good.

After a decade and a half of regular dialogue in a local café, I, Renee Beale, ex-scientist turned producer and coach, decided to transform coffee with emotional intelligence practitioner Mike Martin into this podcast, to share his unique perspective on the mind and how we can use our curiosity and creativity to gain control and rediscover peace – that’s been so helpful in my own life. If you found this episode insightful, we’d love it if you could share it with others. After all minds can bite and these bite-sized conversations offer remedies.

When was the last time you really engaged in play? It’s often seen as something reserved for childhood, a break from the “serious stuff” of life. But what if play isn’t a distraction at all? What if it’s one of the most powerful tools we have for growth, clarity, and resilience?

In this episode of Mind Bites, I’m joined again by emotional intelligence practitioner Mike Martin to explore the deeper meaning of play—why it matters, how it can restore us, and the surprising ways it can transform the way we move through challenges.

If you want to shift from stress and pressure into possibility, and bring more joy and strength into your everyday life, this conversation might just provide the pathway you need: play isn’t optional. It’s essential.

After a decade and a half of regular dialogue in a local café, I, Renee Beale, ex-scientist turned producer and coach, decided to transform coffee with emotional intelligence practitioner Mike Martin into this podcast, to share his unique perspective on the mind and how we can use our curiosity and creativity to gain control and rediscover peace – that’s been so helpful in my own life. If you found this episode insightful, we’d love it if you could share it with others. After all minds can bite and these bite-sized conversations offer remedies.

Rejection. Just hearing the word can sting a little. It’s something most of us try to avoid, soften, or sidestep. But what if the real driver is in here and not out there in the world? In the quiet ways we reject ourselves first—our dreams, our worth, our voice.

In this episode of Mind Bites, I’m joined again by emotional intelligence practitioner Mike Martin to take a deeper look at rejection—what it really is, how we internalise it, and the surprising ways we can reclaim our power from it.

We talk about how rejection can shrink us—or, with bravery, transform us. Why it’s less about what others think of us, and more about how we see ourselves. And how the stories we tell ourselves—about failure, disagreement, even love—can either close us down, or open the door to something better.

If you’ve ever felt rejected—by someone, something, or even yourself—this conversation might just help you see it in a new light.

After a decade and a half of regular dialogue in a local café, I, Renee Beale, ex-scientist turned producer and coach, decided to transform coffee with emotional intelligence practitioner Mike Martin into this podcast, to share his unique perspective on the mind and how we can use our curiosity and creativity to gain control and rediscover peace – that’s been so helpful in my own life. If you found this episode insightful, we’d love it if you could share it with others. After all minds can bite and these bite-sized conversations offer remedies.

Busyness has become a modern-day badge of honour—a signal that we’re productive, important, and in demand. But what if being busy doesn’t mean we’re thriving?

In this episode of Mind Bites, emotional intelligence practitioner Mike Martin and I unpack the myth of busyness—and why it’s often rooted in anxiety, people-pleasing, and the need to prove our worth.

If you’ve ever felt overwhelmed, stuck on the hamster wheel, or like your busyness is covering up something deeper, this episode is for you. You’ll learn how to spot the difference between purposeful engagement and destructive busywork—and what to do about it.

After a decade and a half of regular dialogue in a local café, I, Renee Beale, ex-scientist turned producer and coach, decided to transform coffee with emotional intelligence practitioner Mike Martin into this podcast, to share his unique perspective on the mind and how we can use our curiosity and creativity to gain control and rediscover peace – that’s been so helpful in my own life. If you found this episode insightful, we’d love it if you could share it with others. After all minds can bite and these bite-sized conversations offer remedies.

Loneliness is something we all feel at different points in life—and it’s often misunderstood. We tend to think of it as something to avoid, to escape, to cover up with distractions or busyness. But what if loneliness isn’t just about being alone—or missing other people? What if it’s about missing ourselves?

In this episode of Mind Bites, I’m joined again by emotional intelligence practitioner Mike Martin to explore loneliness from a deeper, more compassionate perspective. We talk about the quiet power of loneliness—not as a sign of weakness or failure, but as an invitation. A moment of honest reflection. A space where we can reconnect with what we’ve lost, what we long for, and who we really want to be.

If you’ve ever felt that ache of disconnection—or found yourself wondering what now?—this conversation is for you. You’ll discover how loneliness can be a gateway to purpose, creativity, and renewal at any stage of life.

After a decade and a half of regular dialogue in a local café, I, Renee Beale, ex-scientist turned producer and coach, decided to transform coffee with emotional intelligence practitioner Mike Martin into this podcast, to share his unique perspective on the mind and how we can use our curiosity and creativity to gain control and rediscover peace – that’s been so helpful in my own life. If you found this episode insightful, we’d love it if you could share it with others. After all minds can bite and these bite-sized conversations offer remedies.

Regret. It’s a feeling we all know—whether it’s a choice we made, an opportunity we missed, or something we wish we had done differently. But instead of seeing regret as a burden, what if we viewed it as a sign of our values, growth, and potential?

In this episode of Mind Bites, I sit down with emotional intelligence practitioner Mike Martin to explore regret from a fresh perspective. We dive into why regret can hold us back, how it impacts our emotions and decision-making, and, most importantly, how we can use it as a tool for personal growth.

Join us as we uncover practical ways to free yourself from the “snowball of regret,” shift your perspective, and take action—whether that means making amends, embracing vulnerability, or transforming regret into motivation. As Mike reminds us, it’s never too late to shed regret and move forward with confidence.

Ready to rewrite your relationship with regret? Tune in now.

After a decade and a half of regular dialogue in a local café, I, Renee Beale, ex-scientist turned producer and coach, decided to transform coffee with emotional intelligence practitioner Mike Martin into this podcast, to share his unique perspective on the mind and how we can use our curiosity and creativity to gain control and rediscover peace – that’s been so helpful in my own life. If you found this episode insightful, we’d love it if you could share it with others. After all minds can bite and these bite-sized conversations offer remedies.

Negativity often gets a bad rap, but what if it’s the key to uncovering hidden truths and personal growth? In this episode of Mind Bites, emotional intelligence practitioner Mike Martin joins me to explore how embracing negativity with curiosity can lead to transformation.

We discuss the surprising benefits of negativity, how to tackle the types of negativity that hold us back, and why reframing what we perceive as "negative" can open the door to new opportunities.

If you’re ready to stop struggling with turning negatives into positives and instead embrace them as a natural and powerful part of life, this episode offers fresh insights to help you find greater happiness, freedom, and personal growth.

After a decade and a half of regular dialogue in a local café, I, Renee Beale, ex-scientist turned producer and coach, decided to transform coffee with emotional intelligence practitioner Mike Martin into this podcast, to share his unique perspective on the mind and how we can use our curiosity and creativity to gain control and rediscover peace – that’s been so helpful in my own life. If you found this episode insightful, we’d love it if you could share it with others. After all minds can bite and these bite-sized conversations offer remedies.

Are you excited by change or do you fear it?

In this episode, Mike and I explore how viewing every day as an opportunity to make small changes can help awaken dormant skills, introduce novel ways of thinking, and allow a new purpose to emerge.

If you’re feeling restless, dissatisfied, or simply looking for more motivation, creativity, or purpose, this conversation offers a fresh perspective on change as a powerful tool for personal growth.

After a decade and a half of regular dialogue in a local café, I, Renee Beale, ex-scientist turned producer and coach, decided to transform coffee with emotional intelligence practitioner Mike Martin into this podcast, to share his unique perspective on the mind and how we can use our curiosity and creativity to gain control and rediscover peace – that’s been so helpful in my own life. If you found this episode insightful, we’d love it if you could share it with others. After all minds can bite and these bite-sized conversations offer remedies.