In this lively episode of "Might Delete Later," new co-host Ana joins Derrick to welcome Megan, a sex and intimacy coach with a knack for making even “breathing into your butthole” sound empowering. Megan shares her journey from massage therapist to sexology bodyworker, demystifies brain spotting therapy, and drops anatomical knowledge bombs (hello, perineal sponge!). The trio tackles taboos, mismatched libidos, and the art of flirting with life itself. With plenty of laughs and practical tips, this episode proves that talking about sex can be both enlightening and entertaining—no shame, just curiosity!

Podcast Intro (00:00:00)
Opening music, show introduction, and welcoming the new co-host Ana.

Introducing Megan and Her Work (00:01:11)
Derrick introduces Megan, her profession, and her approach to sex and intimacy coaching.

Megan’s Training and Somatic Sexology (00:02:23)
Megan discusses her background, somatic training, and trauma resolution therapy.

Explaining Brainspotting Therapy (00:03:42)
Megan explains brainspotting therapy and how it helps process trauma.

Common Issues in Clients (00:05:18)
Discussion of common client issues, especially trauma and performance anxiety.

Communication and Boundaries in Sex (00:06:44)
Importance of communication, asking questions, and setting boundaries in intimacy.

Megan’s Personal Journey (00:07:31)
Megan shares how she was drawn to her profession and her upbringing’s influence.

Learning Boundaries Through Somatic Sexology (00:09:13)
Megan describes learning and embodying healthy boundaries, especially for women.

Performance Anxiety as a Common Thread (00:11:22)
Performance anxiety is a recurring issue across all types of clients.

Shame and Pressure in Sexual Relationships (00:12:41)
How shame and pressure affect sexual dynamics and arousal in couples.

Erectile Issues and Deeper Causes (00:15:17)
Exploring erectile issues, their medical and psychological roots, and sexual compatibility.

Discovering Core Desires and Fantasies (00:17:05)
Helping clients identify what they truly want to feel during intimacy.

Sexual Compatibility and Expression (00:19:17)
Navigating differences in sexual desires and expressing them safely in relationships.

Responsibility for One’s Own Pleasure (00:20:40)
Emphasizing self-responsibility for pleasure and the importance of self-knowledge.

Self-Pleasure and Overcoming Shame (00:21:27)
The role of self-pleasure, especially for those with shame from religious backgrounds.

Learning from Clients and New Discoveries (00:23:36)
Megan shares what she’s learned from clients, including new anatomical knowledge.

Female Anatomy and Lack of Research (00:24:29)
Discussion about the perineal sponge, gaps in medical knowledge, and sex education.

Menopause, Women’s Health, and Stigma (00:27:49)
Challenges in women’s health, menopause, and the lack of medical research.

Sexual Taboos in Different Cultures (00:29:09)
Comparing sexual taboos in the US and abroad, and the impact of religious repression.

Sexual Compatibility and Relationship Challenges (00:31:10)
What happens when couples’ sexual desires don’t align and how Megan helps.

Building Bridges and Practicing Fantasies (00:32:21)
Techniques for couples to practice and communicate their fantasies and desires.

Outsourcing Fantasies and Relationship Choices (00:34:55)
Exploring options when partners’ desires don’t match, including outsourcing and open relationships.

Opening Relationships and Non-Monogamy (00:37:16)
Supporting couples exploring non-monogamy and the challenges involved.

Sexual Frequency and Desire

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In this episode of The Might Delete Later Podcast, the hosts reconnect with Ana, an old high school friend whose fascinating past includes working as a mermaid at the Playboy Mansion. The conversation centers on Ana’s current life as a full-time caregiver for her elderly aunt Sherri, who suffers from vascular dementia and blindness. Ana candidly discusses the emotional, financial, and practical challenges of caregiving, while also sharing moments of humor, resilience, and personal growth. The episode offers an honest look at family, sacrifice, and the enduring power of love and community.

Introduction and Guest Welcome (00:00:10)
The hosts introduce Ana, an old high school friend, and tease her interesting life story and professions.

Ana’s Playboy Mansion Experience (00:01:26)
Ana shares about working at the Playboy Mansion, being a mermaid at parties, and her experiences there.

Transition to Caregiving (00:05:14)
Ana explains leaving her job to care for her elderly aunt, Sherry, and how that responsibility came to her.

Aunt Sherri’s Background and Personality (00:05:33)
Ana describes her aunt’s personality, independence, and their family relationship.

Onset of Sherry’s Health Issues (00:08:03)
Ana recounts noticing changes in Sherri, her stroke, estrangement from her sons, and the beginning of her decline.

Sherri’s Dementia and Blindness (00:09:57)
Ana details Sherri’s vascular dementia, blindness from glaucoma, and the challenges these bring.

Behavioral Changes and Care Challenges (00:10:44)
Discussion of Sherri’s inappropriate behaviors due to dementia, her sweet tooth, and Ana’s efforts to manage her care.

Financial and Emotional Struggles (00:15:03)
Ana talks about the financial strain, difficulty getting state support, and the emotional toll of caregiving.

Faith, Prayer, and Coping (00:18:15)
Ana shares how caregiving has renewed her faith and the role of prayer in coping with stress.

Philosophical and Religious Tangents (00:19:04)
The group discusses beliefs about God, heaven, and spirituality in a lighthearted way.

Uncertainty and Waiting for Support (00:21:08)
Ana describes waiting for social worker responses, losing benefits, and selling clothes to make ends meet.

Ana’s Skating Passion (00:22:55)
Ana talks about her love for roller skating, working at a skating rink as a teen, and returning to skating as an adult.

Sherri’s Remaining Independence (00:25:06)
Ana reflects on how Sherri retains parts of her personality and preferences despite dementia.

Personal Growth Through Caregiving (00:25:44)
Ana discusses how caregiving has changed her, made her calmer, and taught her about herself.

Medical Appointments and Health Management (00:27:01)
Ana describes managing Sherri’s medical care, diet, and the importance of nutrition.

Nutrition and Dementia (00:28:36)
Conversation about the impact of diet on dementia, healthy foods, and the challenges of eating well.

Daily Care Routines and Showering Challenges (00:30:42)
Ana shares the difficulties of bathing Sherri, her fears, and how Ana adapts to help her feel safe.

Estrangement from Sherri’s Sons (00:39:32)
Ana explains the family estrangement, lack of contact with Sherri’s sons, and their absence from her care.

Financial Sacrifices and Family Concerns (00:45:16)
Ana discusses using her own savings, concerns about Sherri’s sons returning for money, and her commitment to caregiving.

Rescuing Sherri and Bringing Her Home (00:46:15)
Ana recounts the moment she decided to bring Sherri home and the initial challenges.

Decline in Sherri’s Vision and Mobility (00:47:37)
Ana talks about Sherri’s worsen

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In this episode of the "Might Delete Later Podcast," hosts Derrick and D-Shean welcome Lori Weigant, a seasoned realtor from the Roseville/Sacramento area. Lori shares her journey from buying her first foreclosure to building a successful real estate career. She discusses market changes, credit tips, and the realities of buying and selling homes, including hidden neighborhood issues and financial hurdles. Lori offers practical advice for first-time buyers, highlights the importance of integrity and problem-solving in real estate, and shares personal stories about overcoming challenges in both her professional and personal life.

Introduction & Guest Introduction (00:00:22)
Hosts introduce themselves and special guest Lori Weigant, a realtor in the Roseville/Sacramento area.

Lori’s Start in Real Estate (00:01:28)
Lori shares how buying her first foreclosure in 2011 inspired her to become a real estate agent.

Getting Licensed & Early Career (00:02:31)
Lori discusses studying part-time, getting licensed in 2014, and the changing real estate market post-2008.

Market Changes & Motivation (00:03:15)
Lori talks about the impact of the market collapse, COVID-19, and her motivation for working by referral.

First Transactions & Early Experiences (00:05:58)
Lori describes her first buyer, early transactions, and working with various property types.

Commission Structure & Business Setup (00:07:42)
Explains commission-based pay, broker relationships, and setting up her own S Corp for tax purposes.

Independent Business Operations (00:09:06)
Lori details running her business independently, handling her own marketing, and using her own transaction coordinator.

Credit Score Specialty & Personal Journey (00:10:39)
Lori discusses her focus on helping clients improve credit scores and her own journey to an 850 FICO score.

Financial Advice & Home Upgrades (00:12:33)
Advice on financial discipline, saving, and prioritizing home upgrades like kitchens and bathrooms over pools.

Client Needs & Forever Homes (00:14:23)
How Lori assesses clients’ long-term plans and the impact of life changes on homeownership.

Out-of-State Moves & Referrals (00:15:56)
Lori explains her California license and how she helps clients find agents in other states.

Companies Buying Homes & Investor Impact (00:16:16)
Discussion on companies buying homes, flipping, cutting corners, and the effect on buyers and renters.

Personal Experience with Flipped Home (00:17:49)
Host shares experience buying a flipped home with hidden issues and problematic neighbors.

Inspections, Disclosures & Neighborhood Research (00:21:14)
Importance of thorough inspections, talking to neighbors, and the legalities of disclosure.

Undisclosed Issues & Legal Recourse (00:24:45)
Discussion on withheld information, potential lawsuits, and the impact of undisclosed property history.

Neighborhood Quality & Agent Limitations (00:28:52)
Lori explains what agents can and cannot disclose about neighborhoods due to fair housing laws.

Property Taxes & Mello-Roos (00:30:05)
Explanation of how property taxes are calculated, Mello-Roos bonds, and differences by area and neighborhood.

Generational Home Buying Trends & Polls (00:34:44)
Review of generational attitudes toward home prices, affordability, and causes of the housing crisis.

Interest Rates & Affordability Challenges (00:36:59)
Lori discusses how high interest rates and inflation affect home affordability and buyers’ decisions.

Delayed Homeownership & Client Mindsets (00:39:16)
Trends of people buying homes later, different client priorities, and Lori’s own experience with a profi

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