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Middle Man

Middle Man

De: Paul Sutton
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From the outside my life looked wonderful. I had an amazing wife, three great kids, a beautiful house in the countryside and a successful consultancy business. But on the inside, I was deeply unhappy. I felt trapped by the very life that I had designed. I felt that I had no sense of purpose. And I’d lost all sense of who I was or what my place in the world was. But what I’ve discovered since is that it needn’t be this way. Middle Man is the show for midlife men and the people who love them. It helps midlife men to rediscover themselves and to embrace the second half of life with positivity, enjoyment and purpose. So if you’re a midlife man with a creeping sense of unease and unhappiness that you can’t put your finger on, if you feel unappreciated and isolated, or if you’ve looked around at your life and thought “is this really it?”, then Middle Man is the show for you. Join me on a shared journey of self-discovery. Desarrollo Personal Higiene y Vida Saludable Psicología Psicología y Salud Mental Éxito Personal
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  • It’s Not About the Money: Rethinking Financial Planning in Midlife with Lewis Cope

    It’s Not About the Money: Rethinking Financial Planning in Midlife with Lewis Cope
    Apr 1 2026
    Financial planning can be a source of major anxiety among midlife men as they start to turn their attention towards retirement and wondering if they have enough saved. The realities of retirement planning in the UK, including what constitutes a minimal, moderate or comfortable lifestyle and the financial benchmarks associated with each, can be complex and daunting, but with discipline they are often more achievable than people assume. This week Paul talks to financial adviser Lewis Cope, who seeks to reframe how men in midlife should think about financial planning, shifting the focus away from spreadsheets and towards something far more fundamental - the life they actually want to live. Lewis believes that for most people, financial decisions are driven less by mathematics and more by psychology, habits and communication. A simple but often avoided question drives much of this thinking: what do you want your life to look like? Feeding into this come honest discussions about values, priorities and trade-offs. And beyond the numbers, conversations around delayed decisions, lifestyle creep, lack of communication, over-reliance on pensions or property, and major life disruptions such as divorce or redundancy are necessary to plan effectively. Ultimately, this episode is less about money itself and more about control, clarity and intention, and helping people move from vague anxiety about the future to a deliberate, personalised plan for the life they want. --------------- If you’ve found this episode insightful or interesting, you can support the show at www.ko-fi.com/middlemanpodcast I'd love to hear about your experiences, so if you'd like to get in touch email me at paul@middlemanpodcast.com and let me know what's on your mind or sign up to the newsletter at www.middlemanpodcast.com Middle Man on Instagram: @middleman__podcast
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  • If You Rely on Exercise to Lose Weight, You’re Doomed - Andrew Jax on Holistic Fitness

    If You Rely on Exercise to Lose Weight, You’re Doomed - Andrew Jax on Holistic Fitness
    Mar 25 2026
    There's a lot of pressure to hit the gym on a regular basis. And there's no doubt that physical exercise and movement are incredibly important in leading a fit and healthy life. But many men in their 40s and 50s struggle not because they lack knowledge, but because life has shifted. Careers, families and responsibilities push their own wellbeing to the bottom of the list, and the result is weight gain, low energy, declining health markers and a loss of confidence. This week Paul talks to fitness coach and former bodybuilder Andrew Jax, known online as 6 Pack Dad, who specialises in helping midlife men regain control of their health, energy and confidence. Drawing on his own experience as a father of three and decades in the fitness industry, Andrew challenges the conventional belief that diet and exercise alone are the keys to getting in shape. He advocates a holistic approach, one that prioritises sleep, stress management, mindset and sustainable lifestyle habits over rigid training regimes. Paul and Andrew explore the deeper motivations driving men to seek change, from wanting to feel more present with their families to addressing serious health risks. And they look at the importance of identifying a strong personal “why” and making small, practical adjustments rather than completely overhauling life. Andrew argues that consistent exercise, while beneficial, is not essential for fat loss, and that fitness should be reframed as a lifestyle rooted in simplicity, consistency and self-awareness - one that not only improves physical health, but also unlocks greater energy, clarity and purpose in midlife. --------------- If you’ve found this episode insightful or interesting, you can support the show at www.ko-fi.com/middlemanpodcast I'd love to hear about your experiences, so if you'd like to get in touch email me at paul@middlemanpodcast.com and let me know what's on your mind or sign up to the newsletter at www.middlemanpodcast.com Middle Man on Instagram: @middleman__podcast
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  • Men Communicate Distress Through Behaviour Rather Than Words - Dr Stephen Blumenthal on Self Expression

    Men Communicate Distress Through Behaviour Rather Than Words - Dr Stephen Blumenthal on Self Expression
    Mar 11 2026
    Many men struggle to understand, express, or even recognise what they are feeling. They often communicate distress not through words but through behaviour, and sometimes in ways that are self-destructive. Excessive drinking, withdrawing from friendships, over-investing time in work or reckless risk-taking can act as signals that something is wrong internally, and are far from uncommon. This week Paul speaks to acclaimed clinical psychologist and psychoanalyst Dr Stephen Blumenthal about the hidden emotional lives of men. He talks about how many men express emotional conflict through action rather than language, and about how these behaviours are often rooted in what he calls 'trauma patterns' - adaptive responses formed in childhood or early life that help individuals cope with difficult environments but may later interfere with intimacy and emotional connection. Stephen explores how social expectations of masculinity shape men’s emotional lives, and how there can be a disconnect between what men feel and what they are able to articulate. And he highlights the importance of self-awareness and reflection. But rather than simply encouraging men to 'express their feelings, he argues that the real work lies in developing a language for inner experience and understanding the emotional signals beneath behaviours, and that a willingness to examine one’s inner life is among the most powerful foundations for long-term wellbeing. --------------- If you’ve found this episode insightful or interesting, you can support the show at www.ko-fi.com/middlemanpodcast I'd love to hear about your experiences, so if you'd like to get in touch email me at paul@middlemanpodcast.com and let me know what's on your mind or sign up to the newsletter at www.middlemanpodcast.com Middle Man on Instagram: @middleman__podcast
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