Takeaways:

• Men are encouraged to treasure their wives, demonstrating love and respect through thoughtful actions and gestures.
• Acknowledging the value of one's spouse is essential; treating her like a queen fosters a loving and supportive environment.
• The stories shared during the podcast illuminate the impact of appreciation on a wife's self-worth and happiness.
• Practical steps to cherish one's partner can transform a marriage, leading to a more fulfilling and rewarding union.

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Takeaways:

• Investing time in your marriage through education and communication is essential for a thriving relationship.
• Understanding your spouse’s personality and background can prevent misunderstandings and enhance compassion between partners.
• Keeping romance alive in your marriage requires intentional effort and creativity, fostering a more fulfilling relationship.
• Embracing teamwork and shared responsibilities in marriage strengthens bonds and helps navigate life's challenges together.

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Introduction to The Lover's Dozen Series - EP 19

Episode references to the 13 points:

#1 - We learn to understand ourself and each other - EP 20 and 21

#2 - We have a passion to meet each other's needs and desires - EP 22

#3 - We develop common interests - EP 23

#4 - We understand that the demands of life on our spouse may hinder them from meeting our needs - EP 24

#5 - We are a team - EP 25-27

#6 - We go by the Bible, the God Factor - EP 28

#7 - We put on love - EP 28

#8 - We communicate with each other - EP 29

#9 - We chill out together and enjoy each other - EP 31; EP 7 & 8

#10 - We do boredom busters - EP 32

#11 - We keep romance alive - EP 33

#12 - We choose sizzle over fizzle in our sex life - EP 34-38

#13 - We are a family of destiny - EP 13 & 14 

In this engaging episode, the Married and Love It podcast invites couples to explore the multifaceted nature of sexual intimacy within marriage. The hosts, Greg and Linda Smith, utilize their extensive experience to impart wisdom on how to sustain a healthy and passionate sex life. They present practical tips that encourage couples to view their sexual relationship as a vital aspect of their union, emphasizing the importance of intentional engagement and the cultivation of love and romance over time. The Smiths introduce the notion of being a 'gift' to one another, a perspective that transforms intimacy into a joyous exchange rather than a mundane obligation. They delve into foundational biblical principles surrounding marital intimacy, encouraging couples to align their practices with spiritual teachings.

The episode features a range of strategies for enhancing sexual intimacy, including the establishment of dedicated times for lovemaking, the significance of spontaneity, and the creation of a romantic atmosphere. The Smiths provide insightful suggestions for improving the bedroom environment, advocating for thoughtful grooming and ambiance to bolster attraction. They tackle common distractions that couples may encounter, such as external obligations and fatigue, offering tangible solutions to overcome these challenges and maintain a vibrant sexual connection.

Furthermore, the hosts stress the importance of communication between partners, urging couples to have open discussions about their desires and boundaries. They advocate for the development of a 'yes, no, maybe' list to facilitate these conversations, thus promoting a deeper understanding of each other's needs. By recognizing and addressing potential barriers to intimacy, couples can work collaboratively to enhance their sexual relationship, ultimately leading to a more profound emotional bond. Through this episode, the Smiths not only share their experiences but also inspire couples to embrace the journey of sexual intimacy as a rewarding and essential component of a thriving marriage.

Takeaways:

• In this episode, we delve into the significance of viewing each other as gifts within marriage, emphasizing the importance of mutual respect and understanding in fulfilling each other's needs.
• We discuss the necessity of intentionality in maintaining a vibrant sexual relationship, underscoring that love and desire must be nurtured regularly.
• Throughout our discussion, we highlight that communication is pivotal, advocating for open dialogues about sexual desires and preferences to enhance marital intimacy.
• We explore practical strategies for enhancing sexual intimacy, including setting aside dedicated time for lovemaking, thus reinforcing the idea that physical connection is essential for a lasting marriage.

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The Fizzlers--Fizzlers - things that affect our sex life

Work, children, pressures, stress, fatigue, illness,

unfulfilled expectations, lack of knowledge, selfishness, abuse, bad

experiences, guilt, wrong viewpoints; prude; fear of pregnancy; the feeling of duty

sex, bad influences; parental upbringing/opinion, boredom.

Additional

“fizzlers” that can cause a low sex drive.

Hormone imbalances, illness (short-term or long-term),

medications, stress, depression, age, being pregnant, childbirth, unresolved

conflict, unresolved emotional issues, erectile dysfunction and premature

ejaculation, unsatisfying sex, relationship struggles, pain; vaginismus.

Plus our past can affect our