Marriage vs Ambition: Hustle, Loneliness & Love | The 3L's Podcast Ep 9

When ambition eats every evening and weekend, what’s left for marriage and kids? In this raw convo, we unpack our 2015 season, late nights, Canary Wharf office life, resentment vs reality, and how we rebuilt with therapy, carved-out time, practical agreements, and intentional fatherhood.

We get honest about why what looked like selfishness was actually loneliness, and share the systems that keep us balanced today: calendar carve-outs, deadlines, seasons, and bringing your partner into the dream.

If you’ve ever felt alone while your partner “hustles for the family,” or you’re the grinder who thinks they’re doing it for love, this one’s for you. Share your experience in the comments. Are you the grinder or the one left behind?

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