“Why do we keep doing this?”
That question might be the key to unlocking a whole new season in your marriage.

In this month’s episode, we dive deep into the unseen cycles that shape our relationships—many of which we inherited, others we’ve accidentally created. From generational trauma and addiction to criticism, over-scheduling, and emotional disconnection, we unpack the spiritual and practical steps it takes to recognize and break these toxic patterns.

💬 Drawing from personal stories, biblical truth, and hard-earned lessons from nearly 30 years of marriage, we explore how couples can rewrite their story—together.

📖 Key Scripture:
Romans 12:2 — “Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind…”

💡 Discover:

• How to recognize patterns that are holding your marriage back
• Breaking generational cycles of addiction, dysfunction, and trauma
• The link between emotional safety and long-term satisfaction
• Practical tools for spiritual connection and mental renewal
• The power of one bold step toward change
• King Josiah’s legacy of transformation and how it applies today

🎯 Key Takeaways:

• Every couple inherits patterns—some helpful, some harmful
• Defining your vision for your marriage is the first step
• Breaking a cycle takes awareness, agreement, and aligned action
• Community and spiritual connection are essential in the process
• One decision can start a ripple of healing for future generations

🙋‍♂️ Question for you:
What’s one cycle in your marriage or family history that needs to end—and what’s one small step you can take this week?

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💬 Leave a comment: What’s one cycle you’re breaking in your marriage?
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Will our marriage really last? That’s the question most couples ask—whether they say it out loud or not. In this powerful episode, we unpack the top predictor of marital success based on brand-new research shared by Les Parrott at a recent marriage conference: perceived partner commitment. What does that mean, and how do you build it?

We break down the difference between commitment busters and commitment builders—everything from separate bank accounts and secrets to road trips and red lipstick moments. We share insights from 30 years of marriage, including personal stories, scriptures, and the hard lessons we’ve learned the long way. Whether you’re just starting out or decades in, this episode will encourage you to build the kind of marriage that lasts—one built on intentional, everyday commitment.

💡 Discover:

• What “perceived partner commitment” actually means
• The marriage triangle: passion, intimacy, and commitment
• 6 commitment busters to watch out for
• 8 commitment builders that create lasting love
• How to protect your marriage from separation, secrets, and criticism
• How shared memories, empathy, and sacrifice keep couples close

📖 Bible Verses Mentioned:
Mark 10:7–9 – “Let no one split them apart.”
Philippians 2:3–5 – “Be humble…have the same attitude as Christ.”

💭 Question for You:
What’s one way you can show your spouse your commitment this week?

❤️ Call to Action:
Leave a comment and let us know how you’re building commitment in your marriage. Like & subscribe for more episodes to help your marriage grow strong!

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In this episode, we’re joined by our friends, Steve and Lori Barker, to talk about the challenges of balancing a busy marriage and life filled with parenting, careers, and everything in between. From juggling schedules, prioritizing each other, to how they make time for their dreams and personal growth, Steve and Lori share their insights and experiences on maintaining a strong relationship through life’s busiest seasons. We also dive into how they integrate their faith and stay connected through it all, offering practical advice on how to stay grounded and emotionally healthy while managing a hectic life. Whether you’re parenting, in a busy season, or just trying to figure out how to prioritize your spouse while managing the chaos, this episode is packed with wisdom and relatable stories.

Key Points:

• Strategies for balancing marriage, kids, and busy careers
• How to keep your marriage strong in the midst of life’s demands
• The importance of being a cheerleader for your spouse’s dreams
• How setting boundaries, like family schedules and tech-free time, can bring peace
• Practical ways to stay emotionally connected while parenting and working
• The value of prayer and supporting each other through challenges

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