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Marriage Lab

Marriage Lab

De: Aaron & Jenna Zint
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Aaron and Jenna have been married for over a decade and love talking to people about their relationships, the messiness, the struggle and the victories in all of it. If you're married or planning on it, you can expect 1) Tools for the growth of your marriage and you personally 2) Hope for a healthy marriage no matter what you've experienced up to this point 3) Laughter and comfort when you say, "That's totally us!" and "We've been there!"

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Episodios
  • Don't ask triggered people BIG questions
    Apr 3 2026

    Ever ask gradually big relationship question in the middle of an argument… and then regretted the answer?

    In this episode, we break down a common (but damaging) pattern:
    asking life-defining questions when someone is emotionally triggered.

    What it often looks like 👇
    • “Why didn’t you invite me?”
    → “Do you have more fun with them?”
    → “So you don’t have fun with me?”
    → “Do you even enjoy being around me?”

    →“Do you even like me?”
    → “Are you happier without me?”
    → “Is something wrong with us?”
    → “Do you even want this relationship?”

    😬 See how fast it escalates?

    We unpack:
    • Why triggered brains give exaggerated, painful answers
    • The “staircase” of escalation most couples fall into
    • The difference between curiosity vs. panic-driven questioning
    • What’s actually happening in your brain (emotional flooding + amygdala hijack)
    • Why you’re not “getting clarity”… you’re digging for pain

    And most importantly—
    the simple habit that protects your relationship:
    👉 Don’t ask big questions when someone is triggered.

    If you’ve ever walked away from a conversation more hurt than helped, this episode will give you a better path:
    pause → regulate → return to clarity.

    A week left: Click here for more info

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    >>> Become a sponor of our shows <<<
    This helps Jenna & Aaron to continue to be able to prioritize making content for you! We appreciate it so much.

    Simply click on this link & you'll support both of the Zints' podcasts!!
    patreon.com/TheHabitLab

    Check out our website ZintSquad.com for coaching individual and couple's coaching appointments, Online Small Groups, Aaron's book, Jenna's Habit Lab Mastery Course and more.

    Please review, subscribe and share your favorite episodes with a friend!

    Links:

    • Online Small Group - Porn Recovery Course
    • Couples Coaching, Habit Coaching, Porn Recovery Coaching, Emotional & Relational Health Coaching
    • Book: Numb to Known: The Surprising Path Away From Porn
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    21 m
  • How calls with your spouse go sideways (& how to fix it)
    Mar 17 2026

    Phone calls with your spouse should be simple… so why do they so often go sideways?

    In this episode, we unpack the subtle dynamics that quietly derail connection:
    • unspoken expectations
    • not checking if the other person even has capacity
    • unclear intentions (are we connecting or handling logistics?)
    • hoping for something deeper… without saying it

    ...and the hurt that builds when your spouse can’t show up the way you needed—especially in the middle of a workday

    What starts as a quick call can quickly spiral into misunderstanding, frustration, or even conflict that leaks into the rest of your day.

    The good news? Most of this is preventable.

    We walk you through a simple 3-step framework to help you:
    • set clear expectations
    • honor each other’s capacity
    • and actually get what you need out of the conversation

    So your phone calls stop feeling like landmines… and start becoming small, consistent moments of connection (or pure logistics exchange) again.


    A week left: Click here for more info

    Click for info on Habit Lab: Mastery Course

    Support the show

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    >>> Become a sponor of our shows <<<
    This helps Jenna & Aaron to continue to be able to prioritize making content for you! We appreciate it so much.

    Simply click on this link & you'll support both of the Zints' podcasts!!
    patreon.com/TheHabitLab

    Check out our website ZintSquad.com for coaching individual and couple's coaching appointments, Online Small Groups, Aaron's book, Jenna's Habit Lab Mastery Course and more.

    Please review, subscribe and share your favorite episodes with a friend!

    Links:

    • Online Small Group - Porn Recovery Course
    • Couples Coaching, Habit Coaching, Porn Recovery Coaching, Emotional & Relational Health Coaching
    • Book: Numb to Known: The Surprising Path Away From Porn
    Más Menos
    36 m
  • Stop Calling Strategies “Needs”
    Feb 26 2026

    In this episode, we unpack one of the most practical distinctions we teach: the difference between a need and a strategy. A need is a relational longing: connection, safety, being seen, being prioritized. A strategy is your idea of how that need should get met: date night, quicker texts, no phones at night, doing the dishes before sitting down.

    The problem is, most of us accidentally disguise strategies as needs… and that’s where control sneaks in. We talk about why that feels so painful (for both people), how “requests” turn into “demands” when there’s punishment attached, and why collaboration creates way more buy-in than prescriptions ever will.

    We'll talk about how to peel back the strategy to name the real need underneath, so you can fight less about the method and connect more around the longing.

    A week left: Click here for more info

    Click for info on Habit Lab: Mastery Course

    Support the show

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    >>> Become a sponor of our shows <<<
    This helps Jenna & Aaron to continue to be able to prioritize making content for you! We appreciate it so much.

    Simply click on this link & you'll support both of the Zints' podcasts!!
    patreon.com/TheHabitLab

    Check out our website ZintSquad.com for coaching individual and couple's coaching appointments, Online Small Groups, Aaron's book, Jenna's Habit Lab Mastery Course and more.

    Please review, subscribe and share your favorite episodes with a friend!

    Links:

    • Online Small Group - Porn Recovery Course
    • Couples Coaching, Habit Coaching, Porn Recovery Coaching, Emotional & Relational Health Coaching
    • Book: Numb to Known: The Surprising Path Away From Porn
    Más Menos
    36 m
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