In this episode Aaron sits down with marriage expert Dr. Gary Chapman, author of The Five Love Languages, to talk about the heart behind lasting marriages—and why love must be expressed with humility, grace, and the attitude of Christ.

Drawing from over 60 years of marriage, decades of pastoral counseling, and the lessons that shaped his life’s work, Dr. Chapman shares how early conflict in his own marriage led him to a transformative encounter with God that forever changed the way he loved his wife. Together, Aaron and Gary explore how love languages can heal—or harm—when used incorrectly, and why serving your spouse must always come before trying to change them.

This episode also introduces Dr. Chapman’s newest book, The Love Language That Matters Most, which goes deeper into the dialects of love languages, personality differences, and the dangers of using love as manipulation instead of sacrifice.

In this episode we discuss–

• Long-term marriage faithfulness
• Biblical foundations for loving your spouse
• Servant leadership in marriage
• Avoiding manipulation through love languages
• Why humility changes everything in relationships

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• Love Language Assessment
• The Love Language That Matters Most

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Keywords: marriage, love languages, Christian marriage, Gary Chapman, Five Love Languages, servant leadership, biblical marriage, communication in marriage, humility, forgiveness, grace, conflict resolution, emotional intimacy, marriage advice, Christian

Today on the Marriage After God podcast, we talk about what it means to live according to God’s economy in our marriage. Money is one of the most common areas of tension for couples, yet Scripture calls us to approach our finances with trust, generosity, and open hands.

We share personal experiences of walking through financial uncertainty and how God used those seasons to shift our perspective. Instead of holding tightly to what we had, we learned to trust God as our provider and see generosity as an act of faith. God’s economy doesn’t always align with the world’s expectations, but it consistently leads to freedom and joy.

When couples commit to a shared, biblical view of money, finances become less about control and more about stewardship. Trusting God together with our resources strengthens unity in marriage and reminds us that everything we have ultimately belongs to Him.

In this episode-

• God’s economy calls us to trust Him rather than rely on money.
• Finances can create tension in marriage without a shared biblical perspective.
• Holding money with open hands reflects faith and surrender to God.
• Generosity brings joy and deepens trust in God’s provision.
• Stewardship begins with recognizing that all we have belongs to God.

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Keywords: God’s economy, marriage, finances, generosity, stewardship, trust in God, biblical money, financial unity

In this episode of the Marriage After God podcast, Aaron sits down with Pastor Craig Thompson to talk honestly about the tension and blessing of balancing ministry with marriage and family. Together they explore the reality of spiritual warfare in the home, the importance of staying grounded in a healthy church community, and the daily choices that shape the spiritual health of a family.

Craig shares from his own experience as a pastor, husband, and father—highlighting the need for intentionality, grace, and constant reliance on the Holy Spirit. Their conversation encourages couples to prioritize their marriage, invest in their children, and stay rooted in biblical community as they navigate the trials that come with Christian living.

In this episode–

• Balancing ministry and family requires humility, intentionality, and grace.
• Pastors—and all parents—must prioritize their families while faithfully serving others.
• Spiritual warfare is real and active in everyday family life.
• Forgiveness, grace, and repentance are essential for healthy relationships.
• Strong community support fuels spiritual growth and resilience.
• Small, daily acts of faithfulness build long-term family health.
• Children thrive when they see their parents put family first.
• Being plugged into a healthy church strengthens marriages and family dynamics.
• Discipleship flourishes within the context of committed community.
• The ongoing battle against our flesh is part of following Christ and pursuing holiness.
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• Website
• Fighting for Your Family
• Christmas Devotional

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Keywords: marriage, family, spiritual warfare, parenting, church, community, forgiveness, pastoral duties, family dynamics, Christian living

Today on the Marriage After God podcast, we dive into the reality of conflict in marriage and the deeper spiritual layers behind the tension we often feel. We share how easy it can be to see each other as the enemy, when Scripture reminds us that the real battle is not against flesh and blood but against spiritual forces and the desires of our own flesh.

We talk about the tactics of deception and accusation that can creep into our hearts, pulling us away from unity. We also explore how humility, love, and intentional communication help us fight fair and stay connected even in the hardest moments.

In this episode-

• Conflict in marriage is normal—and Scripture offers guidance for handling it well.
• We must remember who the real enemy is and refuse to fight against each other.
• Spiritual warfare often plays out in our closest relationships.
• Deception and lies can fuel conflict if we don’t recognize them.
• Accusations tear down unity.
• Unity requires humility, intentionality, and a softened heart.
• Our posture and body language can reveal more than our words during conflict.
• Practical, biblical tools help couples navigate disagreements with grace.
• Prayer disarms conflict and invites the Holy Spirit into the moment.
• Fighting the good fight together strengthens and protects the marriage.

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Keywords: marriage, conflict resolution, spiritual warfare, unity, communication, fighting fair, biblical principles, relationship advice, love, understanding

Today on the Marriage After God podcast, we talk about how much our conduct shapes the culture of our marriage. We share how the way we speak, respond, and show love reveals what we truly believe about God—and how it impacts the emotional and spiritual climate of our home.

We discuss the husband’s role in protecting and caring for his wife and family, and how a wife’s conduct can strengthen and encourage her husband’s faith. As we reflect on Scripture and our own experiences, we encourage couples to stay rooted in prayer, lean on the Holy Spirit, and commit to living out love every day.

In this episode–

• Our conduct in marriage flows from our beliefs about God.
• Husbands are called to protect their wives and families.
• How we view ourselves shapes how we love each other.
• A wife’s conduct can influence her husband’s walk with God.
• Emotional and spiritual protection matter deeply.
• Conduct builds trust and intimacy over time.
• Staying close to God keeps us close to each other.
• Prayer strengthens both husband and wife.
• We shouldn’t grow weary in doing good for our spouse.
• The Holy Spirit guides how we treat one another.

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Keywords: marriage, conduct, husband, wife, protection, emotional support, spiritual growth, devotionals, relationship advice, prayer

Today on the Marriage After God podcast, we explore the truth that Christ alone deserves the throne in our lives. The conversation challenges all of us to lay down anything we’ve elevated above Him and to find our worth, value, and identity solely in who He is. When we honor Christ as our ultimate authority, we experience the fullness, purpose, and freedom found only in Him.

In this episode–

• Christ does not want to share any throne in your life.
• We are called to seek our worthiness and value in Christ alone.
• All honor and glory belong to Christ and Christ only.
• Placing anything above Jesus diminishes His rightful authority.
• True value is found in a relationship with Him.
• Christ deserves our full devotion and undivided heart.
• Searching for worth outside of Him always leads to emptiness.



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Christ, authority, worthiness, value, honor, glory, identity, devotion

Today on the Marriage After God podcast, we discuss God’s holiness, the process of Him refining us, and how marriage provides the context for Him to continue that sanctification in our lives. We share how difficult seasons often reveal what’s hidden beneath the surface—exposing impurities, refining character, and drawing us closer to God. Through the work of the Holy Spirit, husbands and wives can experience deep personal growth, greater unity, and more authentic love. We hope this episode is a reminder of the importance of forgiveness, reconciliation, and recognizing how God can use trials to strengthen and mature a marriage over time.

In this episode–

• Trials in marriage reveal what lies beneath the surface.
• Just as fire brings impurities of gold to the top, challenges expose the sin in our hearts.
• The Holy Spirit is faithful to refine us and scrape away what doesn’t belong.
• We are better today than we were years ago.
• We’ve become quicker to forgive and quicker to reconcile.
• Our love grows deeper with each passing year.
• Marriage is always moving toward something greater.
• Trials refine our character and strengthen our marital bond.
• Love matures through challenges, forgiveness, and the work of the Holy Spirit.

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Keywords

marriage, growth, forgiveness, trials, love, Holy Spirit, reconciliation, personal development

Today on the Marriage After God podcast, we explore the meaning and significance of reconciliation in marriage. We discuss how sin creates distance in relationships and how forgiveness and reconciliation work together to restore unity and intimacy. Through biblical insights, practical encouragement, and personal experiences we hope to help couples pursue healing, trust, and oneness in their marriage.

In this episode–

• Reconciliation is essential for unity and intimacy in marriage.
• Understanding what reconciliation truly means helps us apply it in our relationships.
• Sin creates relational separation that must be addressed with humility and truth.
• Forgiveness is necessary for reconciliation, but forgiveness alone doesn’t always restore closeness.
• God calls believers to be ambassadors of reconciliation in their marriages.
• Open and honest communication is key to rebuilding trust.
• Reconciliation takes time and intentional effort, especially after deep hurt.
• God’s love empowers us to forgive, restore, and pursue unity.
• A thriving marriage is marked by a continual posture of reconciliation.

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Keywords

reconciliation, marriage, forgiveness, intimacy, spiritual growth, conflict resolution, Christian marriage, unity, trust, communication