Luke Shillings: A Man's Perspective on Betrayal and Healing [Encore]

In this encore episode, I sit down with relationship and infidelity coach Luke Schillings to talk openly about betrayal from a man's perspective. Luke shares his experience of discovering his wife's affair, navigating divorce, co-parenting through heartbreak, and ultimately rebuilding his life from the inside out.

We talk about the shock of confirmation, the unexpected relief of knowing you weren't "crazy," the struggle with resentment when children are involved, and the powerful shift that happens when you focus on what you can control instead of what you can't. Luke shares how journaling, forgiveness, and personal responsibility became the turning points in his healing.

Most importantly, this conversation is about resilience — and hope.

In this episode, we cover:

• Why confirmation can bring relief after suspicion
• How to identify what you can and cannot control
• The role forgiveness plays in your own healing
• Why putting yourself first actually serves your children
• How resilience is built one decision at a time

If this episode resonates with you, I invite you to reach out. You do not have to navigate betrayal alone.

Luke's Info:

• Website: https://www.lifecoachluke.com/
• Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/mylifecoachluke
• Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mylifecoachluke/
• LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mylifecoachluke/
• After the Affair Podcast on Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/after-the-affair/id1648061200

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